Hey there, Super Mom! I see you tirelessly making every birthday special for your kids. You’re up late, whipping up cupcakes after a long day of dinner, baths, and the chaotic bedtime routine. And of course, you add in a healthy snack for school because that’s just what we do now. Exhausted? Absolutely. But you think, “This will be a memory they treasure.”
I can only imagine the time and effort you put into planning the perfect birthday bash, complete with party favors, balloons, and maybe a piñata to keep the kids entertained. You meticulously plan the menu, making sure there’s enough food to satisfy everyone while keeping an eye on allergies and other events that might conflict with your child’s big day. You hope everyone can make it so your little one has the best time ever.
Once the party wraps up, I know your house is a disaster zone—the one you spent hours tidying up, now in chaos. But you brush off the mess because the joy on your child’s face as their friends and family celebrate them is worth it.
And when it comes to the birthdays of your partner, sister, or friends, you go all out. You remember every niece and nephew’s special day because you want them to feel loved and valued.
So why is it that when your birthday rolls around, you downplay it and say you don’t want anything? Let’s be real—you deserve to be celebrated, too! You handle everything day in and day out, keeping the family ship afloat. You’re the one everyone turns to because you make life brighter, Mama. It’s time to make your birthday special.
Treat yourself! Go get that manicure and pedicure, eat those French fries, and if you feel like a day at the beach alone, go for it. If you just want a family dinner out so you can take a break from cooking, don’t hesitate to ask. Go to Vegas if that’s your vibe, buy that fancy gadget you’ve been eyeing, or indulge in that extra slice of cake. You are worthy of all this and more! You are the one who kisses wounds and makes everything feel better.
This is your day. Your birthday should be as fabulous as you are. Just because you pour love into everyone else doesn’t mean you should let your own birthday slip by unnoticed. You do so much and give so much—this is the perfect reason to celebrate yourself.
Don’t fall into the trap of saying, “I’m too busy” or “It doesn’t matter.” It matters. You matter to so many people. Celebrate your birthday extravagantly, however that looks for you. You’ve gained another year of wisdom, and that deserves recognition.
So this year, put on your favorite outfit and ask for what you truly want. Create the day you’ve always dreamed of. If no one else steps up, take charge and make it happen for yourself. Enjoy every moment. And make it a tradition to honor yourself each year. You deserve at least one special day, and you are absolutely no exception.
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