After spending over a decade working closely with Hillary Clinton, I faced a difficult decision: to step away from her team. I served as the Acting State Director in her New York Senate office and was a key advisor during her re-election campaign. My journey with Hillary began in the White House and included assisting her on her memoir, making this work a significant part of my identity. And now, she was embarking on her first presidential campaign!
However, I had just become a new mother to an adorable baby boy named Leo. My family was navigating some challenging times, too. My cherished mother had passed away from cancer a few years prior, and we were caring for my ill father, who would also pass away shortly after. On top of that, we were supporting my mother-in-law after the sudden loss of my father-in-law.
I recognized that staying in my role would demand a level of commitment that I wanted to redirect toward my family. So, during my maternity leave, I made the choice not to return to work. Although I had observed Hillary’s leadership for years, I was uncertain about her response. I worried she might see me as weak for not managing it all or, at best, offer a perfunctory wish of good luck. Taking a deep breath, I reached out.
When we spoke on the phone, I informed her of my decision. To my surprise, she immediately tried to persuade me to stay. “We can arrange flexible hours,” she offered, even suggesting I could set up a portable crib in the office. I knew she was sincere, but I also understood the unpredictable nature of political work; my priority was to be there for little Leo.
I expressed my gratitude but stood firm. “You know,” she said, recalling the time when Chelsea was born, “it was immensely tough to return to work.” I remembered her memoir, where she described using every bit of leave before heading back as an attorney.
Then, in a moment that truly surprised me, she continued, “That was one of the hardest decisions I’ve had to make. I completely understand your situation, and I wholeheartedly support your choice. If you ever decide to return, there will always be a place for you here.” I was deeply moved. She exceeded any expectations I had for a boss, especially someone as renowned as her. She listened to me not just as a colleague but as a mother, a daughter, and a partner navigating significant life changes. Her empathy shone through, and she genuinely respected the choices women must make for their families.
Fast forward to this year, I rejoined her campaign as an active volunteer. Leo is now nearly 10, and he has two little sisters who proudly wear their “Hillary” buttons on their backpacks. They understand that while I’m busy with conference calls and emails, it’s all for the cause of supporting families and children everywhere.
When I share my story, it resonates with voters because it illustrates that Hillary’s beliefs align seamlessly with her actions. She champions family values, and you can trust that she will govern accordingly. Hillary is committed to empowering everyone—parents, children, grandparents, and the extended family—to make the best choices for their lives.
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In summary, my experience with Hillary Clinton has shown me that her values are not just rhetoric but are reflected in her actions. This commitment to supporting families is why I stand with her today.