On a sunny Christmas morning when I was about four years old, my dad decided to take my younger brother and me for a walk after we had opened our presents. As my brother and I joyfully skipped ahead, a neighbor’s enormous Irish Setter suddenly dashed out of their yard. The exuberant dog, oblivious to my brother’s fear, knocked him over while trying to play and covered his face in slobbery kisses. I watched in horror as my father intervened, and to this day, my brother remains wary of unfamiliar dogs.
Because of his fear, I was determined to ensure my children grew up without the same apprehensions. I wanted them to feel at ease visiting homes with pets and to know how to behave around animals they didn’t know. I often sought the help of friends with pets to educate my kids about pet etiquette, aiming for their safety and that of the animals. We also waited until our kids were older before adopting a pet, wanting to make sure they understood the significant responsibility involved in caring for one.
When we rescued a two-year-old Shih Tzu last spring, I quickly discovered that pet ownership is far more challenging than I anticipated. As we learned about our new pup’s personality, I recognized that it was essential not only to train her properly but also to make responsible choices, especially when it came to walking her or introducing her to neighborhood kids. There are plenty of ways for dog owners and parents to collaborate to keep parks and neighborhoods safe for both children and pets.
1. Let’s Teach Kids How to Approach Dogs Safely
Our dog adores attention and welcomes belly rubs, but not every dog is the same. Dogs can be fearful of children or may react aggressively if approached too suddenly. Teach your child to ask the dog’s owner for permission before reaching out. If the owner declines, it’s vital to respect that decision. I’ll also do my part by avoiding bringing my dog to crowded situations where she might feel overwhelmed.
2. I’m Happy to Share My Dog, but I Need Your Support
Animals, like humans, dislike unexpected surprises. Dogs can react fearfully if approached from behind. If your child has permission to pet my dog, instruct them to approach from the side and avoid placing their hand in front of the dog’s face. Allow the dog to sniff at their own pace and only pet where the owner suggests. I appreciate parents who help ensure safe interactions between their kids and our dog.
3. Let’s All Take a Break Sometimes
Even beloved pets need downtime. Teach your kids that if a dog retreats to its bed or favorite spot, it’s best to give it some space. Animals often signal their need for a break by moving away. When visiting homes with pets, encourage your child to play with their friends while the dog recharges. If I ask your child to give our dog some room, it’s not to be unkind; I’m just ensuring she gets the rest she needs in a busy environment.
4. My Dog Loves to Eat—Just like Us!
Pets often have specific feeding schedules and can be protective of their food. Teach your child that it’s never okay to disturb an animal while it’s eating or drinking. Remind them to be patient, as the dog will be ready to play once it finishes. If our dog’s mealtime coincides with your visit, I’ll make sure to have some yummy snacks available for the kids to enjoy while our pup eats.
5. All Animals Can Be Unpredictable, Even the Cute Ones
Regardless of how well-trained a pet may be, it’s crucial to approach every animal with caution. Teach children to respect a pet’s boundaries and emotions, remembering that no pet is perfect. Since bringing our dog into our family, we’ve spent countless hours on training to ensure she feels secure and comfortable. However, I appreciate when parents understand that our dog is a family member and respect her space. And I can guarantee Daisy the Shih Tzu will reward your kids with slobbery kisses!
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Summary:
Pet ownership comes with responsibilities that both dog owners and parents should understand to ensure safe interactions between children and pets. By teaching kids how to approach dogs, allowing downtime, respecting feeding times, and recognizing that all animals can be unpredictable, we can create a harmonious environment for both families and their furry friends.