In a surprising turn of events, a mother faced account suspension from Facebook after posting a photo of herself tandem breastfeeding. The image, which showcased her nursing two babies—one of whom was not her biological child—was flagged by the social media platform, despite Facebook’s earlier commitment to supporting breastfeeding mothers. The mother, who was wet-nursing, found herself navigating a frustrating experience with account verification.
Rebecca Johnson, a member of a supportive breastfeeding community, shared her story. “Last Friday night while I was decorating a cake, I received a text from a friend asking if I could help feed a baby whose mother was undergoing surgery,” she recounted. “Of course, I agreed! The baby was exclusively breastfed and wouldn’t take a bottle, which is a common concern for mothers who may have to step away from nursing.”
Rebecca, who has nursed multiple children throughout her parenting journey, explained how she felt compelled to help. “When the baby arrived, you could see she was hungry and tired. I did what I hope anyone would do for my child in a similar situation,” she said. “I was shocked at how many people thought it was odd or unnatural. They’re just breasts, meant for feeding babies. Plus, they’re mine, so I decide what happens with them!”
After Rebecca posted the photo, her husband informed followers that her Facebook account had been deactivated. She was prompted to confirm her identity, leading her to submit various forms of identification, but it still took hours for her account to be restored. “Facebook claimed I was not who I said I was,” she told a blog about the experience. “I sent them my driver’s license, military ID, and even my marriage license, but it was a hassle.”
This incident raises questions about ongoing censorship on social media platforms, particularly concerning breastfeeding. “I believe this is just another way breastfeeding women are targeted,” Rebecca speculated. “Someone probably reported my photo, but it didn’t go against their community guidelines, which is why it remained up after I got my account back.”
Wet nursing, although often viewed as taboo in society, is simply another form of breastfeeding. If a mother is comfortable with it and another mother is in need, it should be embraced as a positive act of community support. For more on this topic, check out this resource, or visit this page to learn more about home insemination kits. You can also find helpful information about infertility and conception at Mount Sinai’s resource page.
In summary, Rebecca’s experience highlights the complexities surrounding breastfeeding and social media policies. Despite Facebook’s claims of support, her account suspension raises concerns about the ongoing stigma surrounding wet nursing and breastfeeding in general.