I was at the grocery store with my two oldest kids, Max and Lily, when we strolled past the flower shop. Max looked up at me with a big smile and asked, “Are you going to get Mom some flowers?” Lily, sitting in the cart, chimed in enthusiastically, “Yes! Let’s get her flowers!” They may not fully grasp the significance of gifting flowers, but they certainly recognize the happiness it brings their mother. Making flower-giving a family tradition has now become a way for all of us to express our appreciation for her.
When my partner, Sarah, and I tied the knot a decade ago, I promised myself I would buy her flowers every month. While I started off strong, life gradually swept me up in college, children, and work, causing me to falter in that promise. I might have managed to bring her flowers a couple of times a year—sometimes to make up after a disagreement or just because I thought she needed a pick-me-up. In hindsight, I realize that compared to some couples, that might seem decent, but it’s likely not enough.
I always had reasons for my inconsistency—lack of time or funds. However, over the past year, I’ve recommitted to this monthly tradition. I’ve learned that buying flowers is surprisingly simple. Unlike in the early years when I had to visit a florist, wait in line, and select the perfect bouquet, now it’s as easy as clicking a few buttons online. There are numerous affordable delivery options available, and I often receive coupons. Recently, I even arranged for a delightful “three days of romance” package with flowers and treats delivered to our home, and my wife loved it! Each day she sent me a photo of her surprise. The kids helped arrange the flowers in water, and it became a fun family activity.
This experience made me realize that my gestures of love toward Sarah have a broader impact on Max and Lily. I want my son to understand how to treat a partner with love and respect, and for my daughters to expect that kind of affection in their future relationships. As we picked out flowers together, I told Max, “When you marry one day, I hope you’ll buy flowers for your wife.” He nodded thoughtfully. I turned to Lily and said, “Whoever you marry better bring you flowers, too.” Her smile and hug showed me she understood.
When we got home, Max and Lily bickered about who would present the flowers to their mom. In the end, Lily won, bursting through the door with a bright bouquet of tulips and a huge grin, exclaiming, “Love you, Mommy!” Max stood behind her, clearly proud. Sarah hugged both of them and gave me a kiss, reminding us all of the importance of these small gestures.
Flowers aren’t the only option—chocolates, coffee, or any little treat that makes her happy would work just as well. Ultimately, it’s about showing appreciation. For us, flowers symbolize my love and thoughtfulness. I want my kids to recognize what romance looks like, and it’s essential to acknowledge a mother’s hard work and dedication.
Sarah is the backbone of our family, often facing thankless tasks throughout the day. From managing meltdowns to dealing with messes, she does it all with grace. She deserves to be celebrated. Buying her flowers is a simple yet meaningful way to say, “Thank you for being our rock. Your efforts are truly appreciated.” She remains just as beautiful and deserving of affection as when we first met, and investing in our relationship—no matter how small—is invaluable.
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In summary, small gestures of appreciation, like buying flowers, not only strengthen your relationship but also set a loving example for your children. Mothers work tirelessly, and a simple act of kindness can go a long way in showing them they are valued.