It’s a sad reality that conversations around “kids” and “police brutality” have become necessary. As a parent raising three young boys in an urban environment, I often find myself grappling with how to address these tough subjects. Just last month, my son had a positive encounter with law enforcement while at a local shopping center. An officer kindly reminded him and his cousins about the curfew, wishing them a safe return to their hotel. How do I explain to him that this isn’t the experience everyone has? How do I tell him that as he grows up, he might be seen as a threat?
These dialogues are difficult, but here are some talking points to help guide your discussions about police brutality.
1. Not All Officers Are Bad.
In a world filled with reports of police violence, it’s vital to remember that there are officers, like the one my son encountered, who genuinely want to protect their communities. It’s tough, especially as a mom of three boys, but I have to acknowledge that not every cop fits the negative narrative.
2. Racism is a Reality.
When discussing police brutality, it’s impossible to ignore the fact that racial bias plays a significant role. Some individuals harbor prejudices based solely on skin color, which is a crucial factor in many police encounters.
3. Girls Are Affected Too.
We cannot overlook the experiences of young girls. Take, for instance, the story of Maya, a young girl who faced aggression from police while having fun at the pool. It’s vital to talk about police violence not just with our sons but also with our daughters. Our boys need to understand the importance of standing up for their sisters as well.
4. It’s Never Too Early for “The Talk.”
While you don’t have to delve into graphic details with a young child, it’s important to prepare them for the possibility of encountering or witnessing police violence. From Tamir Rice to the young girl who witnessed the tragic shooting of Philando Castile, these realities exist and should not be sugarcoated.
In today’s world, it’s essential for all parents to have “The Talk” with their children. For more insights on navigating these challenging topics, check out our post on home insemination kit and consider resources like Make a Mom and Mount Sinai’s infertility resources.
Summary
Talking to children about police brutality is a challenging but necessary task, especially in today’s climate. It’s crucial to emphasize that not all officers are harmful, acknowledge the real impact of racism, include discussions about girls, and start these conversations early. As parents, we must equip our children with knowledge and awareness.