Hey there, Mama. I can sense what you’re going through right now. You’re being hard on yourself, questioning your choices, and perhaps even telling yourself: “I am a horrible mom. I can’t do this.”
You might be feeling this way because today was tough. Maybe you raised your voice at your daughter or reacted too harshly with your son. Perhaps you let the TV run for hours to grab a moment’s peace, to tidy up, or just to catch a break. You might have even resorted to a dinner of a few chicken nuggets, some Parmesan cheese, and hot dogs, just to get through the day.
I get it, it feels like you’re failing. But here’s the truth: if you were genuinely a bad mom, you wouldn’t care. You wouldn’t lose sleep over what your child eats or whether you’re engaging them enough. You wouldn’t feel the need to apologize or grapple with guilt.
Your feelings show that you’re a loving parent. You care deeply about your little one’s well-being, and that’s what counts. When self-doubt creeps in, remember that a few cartoons or an easy dinner won’t harm your child.
It’s natural to make mistakes. In fact, those moments can be opportunities for growth—for both you and your child. They help strengthen your bond and make you a better individual, partner, and parent.
So, when you’re feeling down, remind yourself that you are enough. You’re doing your very best, and despite the setbacks, you are a good mom. You are a wonderful mom.
Additional Resources
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Summary
Motherhood can be overwhelming, and it’s easy to feel like you’re not measuring up. However, your self-awareness and concern for your child demonstrate that you’re a caring parent. Embrace your imperfections, learn from your experiences, and remember that you are enough.