For the past several years, I’ve been on a journey to shed the baby weight from my first pregnancy. I fluctuated in my weight, sometimes reaching my ideal numbers, only to find myself back to those pesky numbers again. No matter how hard I tried, my belly still had that post-baby look. There were moments when it felt as if I was dressing around a beach ball, with my shirts riding up and my pants slipping down. It was incredibly frustrating.
After some investigation, I discovered I had diastasis recti—a condition where the abdominal muscles separate, creating a gap. This not only led to awkward questions like, “Are you expecting?” but also contributed to that other embarrassing issue: peeing when I sneezed. Fortunately, diastasis recti can be addressed through gentle exercises, physical therapy, and sometimes surgery.
To determine if I had this gap, I lay flat on my back with my knees bent and feet on the floor. With one arm behind my head, I lifted my head slightly to engage my abs. I then used my other hand to feel for a gap in the centerline above my navel. I discovered that my gap was two fingers wide initially, but after 12 weeks of gentle movements, it shrank to just one finger.
The healing process takes time. I found a helpful video that guided me on how to check for diastasis recti. Once I recognized the issue, I researched ways to heal it. I immediately stopped lifting weights overhead, doing crunches, planks, and any exercises that required lifting both feet off the ground or straining my abs.
In the mornings, I learned to roll onto my side to get out of bed, which alleviated some pressure on my abs. I also focused on my posture, ensuring I sat and stood up straight while gently pulling my navel towards my spine to engage my abdominal muscles. At night, I performed wall presses by standing against a wall and doing push-up-like movements, which surprisingly helped reduce my gap. I also incorporated walking—aiming for 10,000 steps a day—along with squats, pelvic lifts, and gentle stretching into my routine.
Now, my gap is noticeably smaller, and my belly is finally starting to flatten out, but I still have more healing to do. While it’s empowering to embrace our postpartum bodies, it’s equally important to recognize when something might be wrong. Learning how to address these issues has made me feel stronger and more confident in my own skin, and that is truly invaluable. (Always consult your doctor before starting any exercise program.)
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In summary, my journey with diastasis recti has been a slow but rewarding process. By understanding the condition and implementing gentle exercises, I’ve taken significant steps toward healing and strengthening my core.