If you’re someone who interacts with pregnant women, this is a must-read! “Please, don’t comment on my size!” said no expecting mother ever. While it’s common courtesy to refrain from commenting on someone’s appearance when they’re not pregnant, for some reason, people think it’s perfectly okay to comment on a pregnant woman’s body. As if a tired, hormonal woman carrying a tiny human inside her wants to hear remarks about how big she is or how soon she’s due. Seriously, world, just stop. The only thing you should say to a pregnant woman is, “YOU LOOK INCREDIBLE.” That’s it—no exceptions!
Lila Johnson, who is expecting her third child, experienced a not-so-pleasant encounter at the grocery store that inspired her to share some guidelines on how to respectfully engage with pregnant women. “To the stranger who approached me in the aisle, asked when I was due—as if he had a right to know—and then said, ‘Wow, are you sure it’s not twins?’ before walking off,” she expressed, “Nope! Just no!” Why do people feel the need to say such things?
Lila points out that no other situation exists where it’s appropriate for a stranger to comment on another person’s body in public. “So, if you’re ever struck by a pregnant woman’s appearance and feel compelled to speak, remember this: you are only allowed to say, ‘YOU LOOK INCREDIBLE.’ Because questions about whether it’s twins or if you’re due tomorrow, or any other comment regarding size, is simply rude. It’s not charming or small talk; it’s just inconsiderate,” she wrote in her video caption. “And it’s high time someone called it out!” Preach it!
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Summary
When interacting with pregnant women, the only appropriate comment to make is, “You look incredible!” Avoid making remarks about their size or due dates, as these are often perceived as rude. Respect and kindness go a long way in supporting expectant mothers.