As another NFL season kicks off, I’m reminded of the excitement that comes with the game. My kids, especially my oldest, plead to stay up late and watch the games with me. We often strike a deal: they can enjoy the first half, promising to go to bed without fussing afterward. This has become a cherished tradition in our household, one that brings us together as we root for our favorite teams.
While I love sharing this experience with my children, I also have growing concerns about their interest in playing football themselves. Although they aren’t on a team yet, I know the day will come when they’ll express the desire to wear a helmet and join in. When that happens, I’ll be torn between excitement and worry.
I can already picture the moment my son turns to me and says, “Dad, I want to play football.” My instinct will be to cheer him on with a resounding, “Go for it!” But as I type these words, I feel a knot of anxiety in my stomach. I fear that my support for his ambitions might overshadow my concerns for his safety.
There’s no straightforward answer on whether kids should play football. Some former players, like Michael Adams, believe that kids can enjoy the sport if parents understand the inherent risks. On the other hand, current stars like Alex Williams and Ryan Thompson have opted not to let their kids participate, citing the dangers involved. This split opinion leaves me grappling with the conflicting views of experts and my own children’s enthusiasm.
I often feel like a hypocrite if I deny my kids the opportunity to pursue their passions. I encourage them to explore new interests and experiences, believing that restricting them only fuels their desire to rebel. Yet, as I consider letting my son play, I’ve decided to take some precautions:
1. We Will Watch “Concussion” Together
This film’s portrayal of the long-term effects of head injuries will be a crucial conversation starter. If my son isn’t shaken by Mike Webster’s story, I might need to re-evaluate my approach.
2. Delay Until Middle School
I think flag football is perfectly adequate until sixth grade. I just don’t see the need for young kids to play tackle football.
3. Preseason Chat with the Coach
Knowing that coaches undergo mandatory concussion training is comforting, but I’d like to discuss their methods for teaching safe tackling techniques and their experiences with injuries.
4. Discussion with the Pediatrician
During our annual check-up, we’ll spend some time discussing concussion signs and symptoms, along with any new medical insights. This is vital for staying informed.
Despite these precautions, I understand that there is no foolproof way to guarantee my child’s safety on the field. Each point on my list serves to show my son, his coach, teammates, and our doctor that I am both concerned and accountable for my decision to let him play. Once he steps onto the field, we’re all aligned as a team, sharing the responsibility when I can’t be there.
As a devoted parent, I strive to balance my principles with the need to keep my kids safe. Ultimately, I want to nurture their interests, encourage exploration, and be their loudest cheerleader at every game. All the while, I secretly hope for a smooth experience that leads them to discover new passions.
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