Since becoming a mother six months ago, I’ve come to understand that motherhood is filled with waiting. Patience is not my strong suit, but this journey has certainly taught me to trust in the timing of life. After the nine months of pregnancy, new moms are met with an array of waiting periods as they adjust to life with a newborn.
Some waits can be frustrating, while others are truly heart-wrenching.
To the expectant mom eagerly awaiting your little one’s arrival: savor these moments. They pass by too quickly. I know that anxiety can creep in, and doubts may surface. But remember, you are strong, and you will soon hold your baby close, missing those sweet little taps and kicks.
To the mom whose “baby” is struggling to make wise choices: keep your faith alive. Pray. Pray fervently. While I can’t fully grasp your situation, I want you to know I’m thinking of you. I hope for your child—whether they are 22 or 42—to find their way back home and make better choices.
To the mom with a baby in the NICU: I can relate to your fears. I still have vivid memories of seeing our little one connected to monitors. Whether your stay has been two hours or two months, the worry doesn’t fade. Each minute brings new challenges. I pray that you find reasons to praise throughout this journey and that you receive the strength you need to make it through.
To the mom anxiously awaiting developmental milestones: it’s natural to wonder, “Is this normal?” or “Why are other babies ahead?” I’ve been there too, questioning why my baby isn’t rolling over or cutting their first tooth yet. But let’s try to cherish every moment instead of wishing them away.
To the mom waiting for your child to come home: whether they’re serving overseas or out on their first date, waiting can be tough. I can’t imagine the worries you face. I hope you can find comfort in knowing you raised them well and that you can enjoy your own life as you wait for their return.
To the mother craving a moment of quiet: the days can feel endless, with laundry piling up and kids clamoring for your attention. You’re exhausted, possibly on day three without a shower. But remember, one day they will become more independent. They won’t need to be rocked to sleep or have their food heated. Soon enough, you’ll find yourself waiting up for them to come home. I hope you take moments to breathe and care for yourself amid the chaos.
Motherhood is undeniably challenging. The days can stretch on, and the nights often feel even longer. There are tears, laughter, milestones, and moments that tug at your heartstrings. It’s a role that requires immense courage and strength.
I pray you find the resilience to navigate through the various waits of motherhood, whether it’s for the next milestone or navigating tougher moments.
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Summary
In this reflection on motherhood, I explore the various waits that come with being a parent, from pregnancy to the challenges of watching children grow. Each waiting period brings its own set of emotions, from joy to anxiety. Yet, amidst the trials, there’s a call to cherish every moment and find strength in the journey.