A while back, I found myself in a bit of a chaotic state—messy hair, comfy sweatpants, and an unshakable wine stain on my shirt—when my partner walked through the door. Normally, I’d have rushed to apologize for my appearance, the clutter around the house, or my slightly tipsy demeanor. But not this time. I had reached my limit with toddler meltdowns, sleepless nights, and the daily grind. Instead of saying “sorry,” I took a stand. I expressed my frustrations about societal expectations on mothers, and it felt liberating.
Since that day, life has been much brighter. I’ve decided to share 10 more things that moms should stop feeling guilty about.
1. Resting Mom Face
You’ve probably heard of “resting bitch face,” but what about “resting mom face”? This is the look that says, “If you don’t behave, I might just lose it.” I wear it often, thanks to my two rambunctious kids. But guess what? I’m not apologizing for it!
2. Chicken Nuggets and Mac and Cheese
Like most parents, I started with grand nutritional goals, but reality hit hard. My kids thrive on chicken nuggets and mac and cheese, and you know what? They’re happy and healthy. I even buy the “organic” kind, so that makes it okay, right? If you’re someone who’s cringing at this, maybe relax a bit and realize they aren’t growing extra limbs.
3. Hiding in the Bathroom
When chaos reigns and tiny humans are teaming up against my sanity, I sometimes retreat to the bathroom. I indulge in a few moments of peace, even if it means pretending I’m at a spa while my kids run amok outside. It’s better than losing my cool!
4. Taking Anxiety Medications
Mental health is crucial! I grew up in an environment where mental illness wasn’t taken seriously. After struggling with postpartum depression, I sought help and have been on anxiety meds since. They’ve helped me tremendously, so if you have a problem with that, I suggest you reconsider your stance.
5. Screen Time
There’s a lot of chatter about the dangers of screen time, but sometimes a little Disney magic is exactly what I need to finish my tasks. I’ve seen my kids learn from their shows, so I consider it part of their education.
6. Working
Whether it’s out of necessity or personal fulfillment, working moms shouldn’t feel guilty for balancing careers and family. If you think we’re neglecting our kids, think again—moms are always working, no matter where that work takes place.
7. Yelling
I don’t enjoy raising my voice, but when my kids decide to strip down in public, it becomes necessary. I mean, nobody wants a toddler disaster on their hands, right?
8. Having Opinions
Just because I’m a mom doesn’t mean my viewpoints are any less valid. I’m passionate about my interests, and I can have opinions about everything from sports to politics. So, if you think my thoughts don’t count just because I’m female, think again!
9. Being Assertive
When women express their views, they’re often labeled negatively. It’s time to change that narrative. Assertive women should be celebrated, not criticized.
10. Not Caring What Society Thinks
It’s 2023! Women aren’t just here to fit into outdated molds. We can live authentically and shouldn’t apologize for our choices—whether that’s our career paths, personal style, or opinions. If you can’t handle a woman being herself, that’s your issue, not mine.
Ladies, let’s take up space and stop tiptoeing around societal expectations. We matter, and we don’t owe anyone an apology for being ourselves.
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In summary, moms need to stop feeling guilty about their choices and lifestyles. Embracing who we are and what we do is essential for our well-being and sets a positive example for our children.