Hello there! I’m a woman in her 40s, and surprisingly, it feels pretty liberating. Sure, there’s a sense of invisibility that comes with middle age, but honestly, I’m embracing it. If I live to be 95—an ambitious target, I know—I’m currently right in the middle of this journey called life. Looking back, I can see the chaos of intense parenting, food struggles, self-image battles, and uninspired days. I’ve made my fair share of mistakes, and I’m ready to share what I’ve learned.
Now, at the ripe age of 47, with 48 around the corner, I find myself in the “autumn” of my life. With this stage comes a refreshing clarity about what really matters—and what doesn’t. Here are six things I’ve happily let go of:
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What to Wear
I’m not into the “mom uniform” anymore. While I enjoy looking good, I’ve realized I don’t need to impress anyone with trendy outfits. I’ve found my go-to style: yoga pants paired with a flattering top that hits just right to accentuate my curves while keeping things modest. I know what works for me, and I confidently show it off—whether it’s a casual dinner out or a quick grocery run. -
Who My Friends Are
My closest friends have been through thick and thin with me. They know all my secrets and have offered unwavering support, even when things got rough. There’s no need to keep up appearances or worry about superficial friendships. My circle is tight-knit, low-maintenance, and we’re always there for each other, no questions asked. -
Whether You Like Me or Not
You might think I’m a know-it-all for sharing my views on parenting, but that doesn’t bother me. Whether you agree or disagree with my opinions, I appreciate the engagement. I’m no longer seeking validation; I’m just sharing my thoughts, and that’s enough for me. -
How to Cook Something
Cooking is one of those skills that improves over time. After countless dinners, I’ve mastered the art of timing and seasoning. When I say dinner will be ready in 10 minutes, trust that it will be on the table right then. Experience has made me a confident cook, and I’m comfortable whipping up meals without a second thought. -
What Happens in the Bedroom
By now, I know what I want and how I want it. This clarity is incredibly freeing. There’s no pressure to perform; if things aren’t clicking, we can simply roll over and read or watch a show together. No drama, just honesty and comfort. -
Growing Out My Bangs
When it comes to hairstyles, we’ve all learned what works for us by now. Gone are the days of experimenting with bangs. I’ve found a style that suits me, and I’m sticking with it. My grandmother always said, “If you don’t like bangs, why keep cutting them?” Wise words, indeed!
This is just a glimpse of what I’ve stopped worrying about. Of course, I have my fair share of concerns, like pesky chin hairs, unruly hair down there, and those telltale eye bags that scream “middle age.” Women my age have plenty on our minds, from health screenings to skincare.
So, young ladies, enjoy your youth, and maybe make a decision about those bangs already. And don’t stress too much about that outfit for the club tonight—those high-waisted shorts? Go for it!
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Summary:
In my 40s, I’ve learned to let go of many worries, embracing a more carefree attitude towards clothing, friendships, and even intimacy. Life is too short to stress over trivial matters, and I’m focusing on what truly brings joy and contentment.