When it comes to making their children happy, moms will go above and beyond, even if that means donning a fake mustache and stepping into the role of “dad.” That’s exactly what Kelly Martinez did recently when she noticed a commotion at her son’s North Texas school during morning drop-off. It turned out to be a “Doughnuts with Dads” event. Unfortunately, as a single mom, Kelly’s son was left out. Talk about a bummer—who wants to miss out on doughnuts?
Not one to let her son miss out on treats, Kelly decided to take action. She returned home, threw on her best costume inspired by “Super Mario Bros,” complete with a mustache that left little to the imagination, and went back to the school to enjoy doughnuts with her son. Because let’s be honest, doughnuts should be for everyone!
Kudos to Kelly for going the extra mile to bring joy to her son, even if it may not be the healthiest choice (just kidding!). Single parenting is challenging, and I can totally relate; if one of my kids were left out because I was raising them solo, I’d probably wear a tutu if it meant making them smile. (They might think I’m crazy, but hey, it’s all hypothetical!)
Inclusivity in School Events
But it raises an interesting question: Why are events like this only for dads? As some comments under Kelly’s post suggested, there are ways to make these events more inclusive. One parent shared that her school hosts a “Pastries for Parents” gathering, while another mentioned “Doughnuts for Dudes and Dudettes.” These simple name changes ensure that no one feels excluded and that no one has to dress up to enjoy a free Boston cream.
Sure, the school might have events for moms, and Kelly can attend those in her regular clothes. However, it seems a bit outdated to separate events by gender roles. Whether you’re a married mom, a single dad, or part of a same-sex couple, parenting is universal, and children just want to have fun. Dividing events by gender only highlights those kids who may not have a specific parent in their lives.
A Simple Fix
Is this a major issue in the grand scheme of things? Probably not. But it’s an easy fix—much simpler than putting on a fake mustache!
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Conclusion
In summary, Kelly’s fun and heartwarming gesture to participate in “Doughnuts with Dads” highlights the importance of inclusion in school events. There are many ways to ensure that all parents can share special moments with their children, regardless of their family structure.