It Takes a Village, But Now That Village Seems Full of Judgemental Onlookers

Parenting

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Remember the age-old saying, “It takes a village to raise a child”? Nowadays, that village seems more interested in critiquing your parenting on social media than lending a helping hand. A recent incident in a restaurant illustrates this perfectly, as one man chose to film rather than assist.

In a busy Ohio eatery, a couple briefly left their infant in a carrier in a booth while they went to the buffet. Instead of keeping a watchful eye, a nearby diner decided to record the situation, mumbling “morons” under his breath. This video quickly went viral, racking up nearly four million views on Facebook before it was taken down. The mother later clarified on social media that the baby was never out of her sight, which is hardly surprising—most parents would ensure their child remains visible, especially in public.

Despite the baby being safely secured, the local police launched an investigation into potential child endangerment. Chief Ken Klamar questioned the rationale behind such scrutiny, pondering why resources were being used for this situation when the so-called “hero” behind the camera could have called for help instead of filming.

Incredibly, these parents now have an open case with Eerie County Child Services due to someone seeking viral fame at their expense. If this is what “the village” has become, many of us would prefer to navigate parenting on our own.

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In summary, the way society has shifted from community support to judgmental observation is alarming. Parents are often left to fend for themselves in an era where their actions are scrutinized rather than supported.

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