As moms, we can be our own harshest critics when it comes to the sensitive topic of post-baby weight loss. Especially when our “little ones” are now pre-teens and we still find ourselves with a few extra pounds. But let’s be real—there are plenty of genuine reasons why those stubborn pounds stick around long after our kids are born.
Sure, some fitness influencers might call them “excuses,” but I prefer to think of them as valid points. Here are just a few:
- Having a baby reshapes your body—literally. Wider hips and a different pelvic structure can make fitting into those old jeans a challenge. Thanks, kiddos!
- When we encourage our kids to clean their plates, we realize we can’t preach what we don’t practice.
- Let’s be honest: who wants to toss out a cupcake, even if it’s missing the frosting? Not me!
- Those chicken nuggets? They add up.
- By the end of a long day filled with parenting duties, we often find ourselves too exhausted to do anything but collapse onto the couch.
- After a day of juggling work and household tasks, the drive-thru can be incredibly tempting.
- Sometimes, we just want a meal where we don’t hear “yucky” at least once—hello, pizza!
- We often spend a lot of time sitting while we wait for our kids—whether it’s at the doctor’s office or sports events. Sure, we could exercise, but side-eyes from strangers? No, thanks.
- It can be tough to stick to a kale smoothie diet when you’re preparing balanced meals for the whole family.
- A sneaky moment in the closet with a candy bar can keep our sanity intact.
- Birthday parties mean treats, and sampling is basically a requirement.
- Eating some of the Halloween candy is a necessary quality control measure.
- Our favorite wines can sometimes pack a calorie punch.
- Mornings often turn chaotic, leading us to skip breakfast and overindulge later, convincing ourselves it’s fine because we skipped.
- Ice cream runs can be the perfect remedy for our kids’ little heartbreaks or injuries.
- With kids wasting food, it feels wrong to toss leftovers—it’s like throwing away money.
- Supporting our kids’ fundraisers (like cookie sales) means indulging a little ourselves—who can resist a good cause?
- A little extra padding makes for the coziest laps for snuggling.
- There’s never a shortage of snacks in our bags.
- We refuse to hold ourselves to unrealistic celebrity standards, especially when they flaunt their post-baby bodies a few days after giving birth.
The reality is, we shouldn’t feel ashamed if we don’t resemble our pre-baby selves. Baby weight is a natural part of motherhood that we all face. After all, it takes nine months to gain it and sometimes, a lifetime to lose it. Right? Now, about those leftovers—let’s not let them go to waste!
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Summary: Losing baby weight is a complex journey influenced by numerous factors, from bodily changes to lifestyle habits. It’s essential to recognize that every mom’s experience is unique and valid, and embracing the journey is part of motherhood.