The Kind of Friends I Desire

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I want friends who are reliable, those who will show up when it matters most. I crave honesty in my friendships, people who can look me in the eye and say, “You’re being ridiculous,” yet still offer their love. Friends who can remind me that even amidst chaos, someday I’ll look back at these moments and find humor in them.

I need companions who reassure me that everything will turn out fine, especially because having them by my side is a comfort in itself. I want friends who come together when times get tough, those who will help me carry my burdens when I can’t do it alone.

It’s essential for me to have friends who accept my complexities without judgment. I’m not just a story to share; I’m a person who deserves understanding. I want friends who dance in the light with me, rather than retreating into the shadows of gossip and drama.

I’m not a project to be fixed. I seek friends who accept me just as I am and believe that I am enough. I want friendships where it’s perfectly fine to drop by unannounced because I’m in the area and need a restroom or just need a break. I want friends I can comfortably be myself around, no matter the situation.

I want friends who send me uplifting memes when I need them most. I want friends who won’t judge my choices, whether it’s ordering water but sneaking a Sprite at Taco Bell or simply being at Taco Bell in the first place.

On my insecure days, I want friends who silently let me know I belong without needing words. If I feel wronged, I want friends who give me space to vent and who might even rally an imaginary mob for support. I want friends who prioritize my safety, especially when the biggest threat is my own doubts.

I want friends who can seamlessly pick up where we last left off, without taking breaks or distance personally. I seek friends who have a zest for life, good food, adventure, and love.

Please celebrate my victories with me. I want friends who recognize the effort behind my achievements, just as they do their own. I’m looking for friends who inspire excitement, those who are generous with their energy.

I appreciate differing opinions and perspectives. I want friends from diverse backgrounds, those who challenge my views and encourage collaboration. I want friends who allow me to cheer for them as they pursue their dreams.

It’s perfectly okay to reach out to me anytime, day or night. I want friends who can show their vulnerabilities and let me offer comfort, like bringing over pizza and cake during tough times. I want friends who set a positive example, inspiring me to be my best self without making me earn their love.

Friendship should be free of ulterior motives. I want friends who don’t drain my energy or use me for their own gain. I’d prefer friends who don’t bombard me with group messages or hit “Reply All”—I think that’s a reasonable request.

I want friends with a fun side, those who share hilarious stories that show they don’t take themselves too seriously. I want friends who can add a bit of spice to my life, like jalapeños turning a simple dish into something extraordinary. And of course, friends who share my love for tacos!

What I truly desire are open hearts, the acceptance of imperfections, recognition of new possibilities, and opportunities for deep, meaningful connections. I want to celebrate life together, embrace moments of quiet, grieve together, and stand up for what we believe in. I seek good friends who dare to love without fear.

In summary, I want friendships that are genuine, supportive, and full of laughter. I crave connections that allow for vulnerability and growth, where we can lift each other up and celebrate life’s ups and downs together.

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