I have a bucket list, just like most people do, but at this point in my life, my “Forget It” list has become far more important. Sure, I dream of visiting Italy someday, indulging in all the pasta and wine, along with checking off other bucket list items, but right now, those dreams are on the back burner. With everything going on, my brain simply can’t juggle both lists. I’ve discovered that saying “forget it” is surprisingly therapeutic. If it doesn’t spark joy, I just say “forget it.” If something is unavoidable, then forget it — I’ll roll with it and take it easy. I take pride in my ever-growing list; the older I get, the more it expands, and oddly enough, the happier I feel. The things that frustrate me are much easier to handle when I add a “forget it” to the mix. Here are ten of my biggest forget-its:
- The Tupperware Cabinet
Since my first child started crawling, the Tupperware cabinet has turned into a notorious time sink. It was the first babysitter for my little one, but having a tidy cabinet while raising kids? Not possible. I’ve finally accepted that I can’t find matching lids anymore. Now, I just wrap leftovers in plastic wrap and pour myself a glass of wine with “forget it” boldly written on it. - Matching Socks
Life is too short for sock drama. My kids often wear mismatched socks or just one sock. I’ve decided to toss them all into a drawer and think, “forget it, I did my best, and it doesn’t matter anyway.” - Cleaning Out the Junk Drawer
Nope, not happening. It’s way more fun to dump the contents in the trash and make room for more clutter. Voilà! That’s two hours and a couple of headaches saved. - Hitting the Drive-Thru
I often need a caffeine fix. I’ve tried to quit coffee a dozen times this month, but forget it — I know what’s best for my family, and right now, that includes caffeine for me. Plus, if it’s close to dinner time, announcing takeout makes everyone happy, especially when they’re too stuffed to chat on the way home. - Lying to My Kids
“Mom, was that the Easter Bunny I heard last night?” Sure, I could have a serious talk about it, but mixing fiction with reality doesn’t feel right. So, I just say, “Of course, kids! Enjoy this extra candy while I recover from that chat.” - Shopping for a Swimsuit
If I bend over in this bikini, everything spills out, but you know what? It looks good when I’m standing still, so why not? It’s the ultimate “forget it” moment! - Letting My Kids Dress Themselves
My daughter loves wearing fleece pajamas in the summer, and my son pairs knee socks with shorts in winter. After a few attempts to explain temperature regulation, I just count to three and think, “forget it, let them freeze or sweat!” - Letting My Kids Have Sugary Treats
While they’re running around, I figure they’ll burn off those extra Popsicles. I’m the fun mom, so forget it, they can have another one! But when the sugar kicks in and they turn into little devils, I hand them their iPads to avoid losing my cool. - Buying Myself Something Nice
Whether it’s a nice dress or some new shoes, moms need little luxuries to make parenting more bearable. After all, I’ve wiped butts for years, so “forget it, I deserve this!” - Caring About What Others Think
This might be more of a “forget you,” but I really don’t care. Plenty of people appreciate my laid-back attitude. The more I say “forget it,” the more others join in, and before we know it, everyone is happy!
One day, I’ll return to my bucket list, but for now, I’m too busy watching my kids enjoy their mismatched socks, overdosing on Popsicles, and savoring that third glass of wine. Because, really, forget it.
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In summary, embracing a “Forget It” attitude can bring a sense of relief and joy to the hectic life of parenting. While the bucket list may linger in the background, the focus on enjoying the little moments makes life more fulfilling.