I’m that mom on social media who seems to attract both admiration and disdain. Yes, I’m an oversharer, and it’s led to some heated discussions.
- I’m the mom who stands by other breastfeeding mothers when they seek guidance.
- I’m the mom with two kids in cloth diapers.
- I’m the mom who co-sleeps with her little ones.
- I’m the mom who grows her own organic vegetables to prepare homemade baby food for my toddler and infant.
- I’m the mom you’ll see in the grocery store with a baby in a comfy carrier.
- I’m the mom pushing a cart full of healthy snacks and organic produce for my kids.
- I’m the mom who proudly shares her story of a natural birth and quick labor online.
- I’m the mom who sheds nearly all her baby weight shortly after giving birth and has no stretch marks.
- I’m the mom constantly posting workout pictures with my babies.
- I’m the mom who openly expresses gratitude for my blessings, especially my family.
I’ve been labeled the “hippie-crunchy-granola” mom, accused of shaming others simply because of my lifestyle choices. It seems I’m the mom everyone loves to criticize. You roll your eyes at my posts, judge me as I walk by, and even post passive-aggressive remarks about me. Trust me, I notice.
But here’s the truth: while you’re busy critiquing my choices, don’t forget that you, too, are a mother navigating your own set of challenges. We all make decisions based on our unique circumstances.
Let me elaborate on my choices:
I support breastfeeding mothers because I know how hard it can be. My son was formula-fed for the first year of his life, and when my daughter came along, I faced my own struggles with breastfeeding. It’s not about shaming anyone; it’s about sharing what works for our families. In fact, I help others who seek advice because formula feeding can be a financial burden for many.
As for cloth diapers, the reality is simple: have you seen the prices of diapers lately? I have two kids, and using cloth is far more economical for us.
Co-sleeping has been a necessity. Research aside, after going back to work just six weeks postpartum with my first child, co-sleeping was the only way we all got enough rest. My children are safe, and we manage to sleep well most nights.
Growing my own food is a passion for me. It’s affordable, convenient, and it allows me to know exactly what’s in my meals. I can easily grab fresh tomatoes for sandwiches or salads straight from my garden. Yes, I know it sounds “crunchy,” but it works for our family.
I also wear my baby in a high-quality ergonomic carrier, not just for bonding but because it makes life easier when managing two little ones.
When you see my grocery cart brimming with healthy options, it’s because I’m trying to prevent diseases that have affected my loved ones. However, let’s be real; you’ll also find cookies and frozen pizzas in there. Balance is key.
I’ve experienced both medicated and natural labor. Each had its place for me, and I’ve shared my experiences proudly. I’m not ashamed of how I gave birth; I’m proud of both journeys.
And yes, I lose my baby weight quickly, and I don’t have stretch marks. That’s just genetics. I embrace my body, and I admire those who carry their stretch marks as reminders of their incredible journeys.
I focus on fitness and health because I come from a family with a history of illnesses. It’s important for me to take care of myself for my family. I don’t shy away from sharing my journey, hoping to inspire other moms to prioritize their well-being.
Finally, I express gratitude openly. I’ve learned to appreciate even the small things in life. Whether it’s my children, food on the table, or the ability to buy new clothes and toys, I’m thankful. If that bothers you, feel free to scroll on by.
If we took the time to understand why moms make certain choices, perhaps we wouldn’t be so quick to judge. But let’s be honest; that’s likely not going to happen anytime soon. So, I’ll continue to do what works for my family, and I’ll keep sharing it.
And if your approach is different from mine, I bet you have a solid reason too. After all, we’re all just moms trying to navigate this journey.
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In summary, I’m that proud, oversharing mom, and while I may not be everyone’s cup of tea, I’m just doing my best for my family.