As wonderful as parenting can be (hear me out), there are definitely some challenges. Surprised? Who would have guessed that pouring your heart and soul into raising little humans could occasionally feel like a slog? Well, it can be—sometimes more often than not. Sure, the high points shine brighter than the low ones, but those tough moments can be hard to navigate.
The trick is getting through those valleys, and guess what? It’s never been easier thanks to technology.
Even if you see parenting as a continuous stream of joyful moments and enlightening revelations, you have to admit that it can be a bit boring at times. When your kids are infants or toddlers, your days are consumed with the basics: making sure they’re alive, clean, and fed. You can’t keep them entertained and engaged every single moment, and even if you could, you might just find yourself feeling overwhelmed. The activities kids love? Often, they’re not the same ones adults enjoy. Sure, I cherish my time with my two kids—building blanket forts, assembling Lego sets, or racing around the living room—but let’s be honest: that can wear out an adult pretty quickly.
Sometimes, I just need a breather. Maybe it’s to catch up on chores, handle some bills, or simply enjoy a moment of solitude. In those instances, you know what I do? I hand my child my phone or tablet, or I put on a show from Netflix, and I get a half hour or two of peace. It’s not just a convenience; it’s essential.
I genuinely wonder how my parents managed it. Or how their parents did. (I have a hunch about my grandparents, though: they probably sent the kids out to help with chores or their jobs at the factory.) Keeping kids entertained is a full-time job in itself. Just this morning, I heard my son exclaim, “I’m bored!” at 9:24 a.m. on his first day of summer break! Engaging with them is both vital and enjoyable, but it’s perfectly fine to step back every now and then to take care of our own needs. The gadgets we have today make that so much easier.
Of course, there are downsides to relying too heavily on technology to keep our kids occupied, but there are benefits as well—for both parents and children. When used wisely, tech can be nourishing. Not only are there countless educational apps and games available, but let’s be real: being tech-savvy is going to be a critical skill for them as they grow up.
You might think I’m just justifying my choices, and if I were someone who let my tablet babysit a 5-year-old, I might agree with you. But I don’t. I set limits on screen time, and I intend to keep it that way. However, there are moments when I allow a little indulgence, especially when it makes life easier for me.
I’d much rather my energetic, clingy 5-year-old use my phone to play a game for a bit than find myself stressed and snapping at him simply because I need a moment to recharge. I’m not ashamed to admit that I need a break from my kids now and then, and technology is what allows me to take that necessary breather.
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In summary, while parenting can be incredibly rewarding, it also comes with its challenges. Technology provides a much-needed respite, making it easier for parents to take short breaks and recharge, which is vital for maintaining a healthy family dynamic.