I’ve been anticipating your arrival for so long. Ever since I was a little girl carrying around my favorite doll, I’ve imagined being your mom. I’ve dreamed of reading you bedtime stories and watching you drift off to sleep, picturing your bright eyes and cheerful smile in my mind countless times.
I long for the unbreakable bond that will connect us, finding just the right balance between being your parent and your friend. I want to be the confidante who knows your dreams, your secrets, and your worries.
I also worry about the tough moments ahead, when you’ll discover that not everyone is kind and that some people can be downright cruel. While I want to shield you from the harshness of the world, I also want to prepare you for it. I hope to be the kind of mother who instills in you kindness, patience, and the ability to forgive.
But above all, I wish for you to be nothing like me. I don’t want you to struggle with your identity as I once did. I hope you grow up knowing who you are, feeling secure in the love and support of your family. May you never feel the sting of being different; instead, embrace your uniqueness, recognizing that our differences are what make life beautiful and help us grow.
Please don’t let your experiences harden your heart as mine did. Instead, use them to cultivate insight and empathy; compassion will bloom from this. I hope that when you’re angry, your words remain gentle and that you don’t allow your emotions to overshadow your kindness.
I want you to possess strength and stay true to your values. If you ever need to step away from the crowd to uphold what you believe is right, I hope you find the courage to do so. Keep your heart open and trust in others; don’t let insecurities block your path as they did mine.
Be adventurous and explore beyond your comfort zone. Embrace failures as stepping stones to growth. They will teach you invaluable lessons. I know you will carve your own path, just as I have mine. While I wish you could avoid pain and sorrow, those experiences will shape you positively if you allow them.
You will stumble and feel discouraged at times, but remember, you are resilient. You will rise, brush yourself off, and keep moving forward. This journey is yours alone; I can’t walk it for you, nor would I want to. My only hope is that you avoid my mistakes. Regardless of the choices you make, I will support you wholeheartedly because…
You are extraordinary. You are amazing. You are perfect.
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In summary, my dear, embrace your individuality, learn from your experiences, and know that I will always be here for you, cheering you on.