When our two oldest children departed for sleepaway camp seven weeks ago, there were countless articles on how to prepare kids for camp: what to pack, how to say goodbye, and how to write a great letter. But what about when campers return home after weeks away? What should you expect? Here are some helpful tips for a smoother re-entry:
1. Expect Mixed Emotions
Your children may burst off the bus thrilled to see you—or they might not. I envisioned a heartwarming reunion, kids rushing to hug me and gushing about how much they missed home. While there was some of that, it often came with a hint of sadness, like, “I missed you, but I’m really sad camp is over.” It’s normal for them to feel conflicted; they’re happy to see you, but they’re also coming down from the high of an exciting adventure.
2. Be a Good Listener
Every child is different. Our daughter will chatter nonstop about her camp experiences, recounting every detail from the first day. She sings camp songs and shares stories, almost as if reliving the memories with us. Conversely, our son tends to offer short replies like “Great” or “Awesome.” Don’t force them to share more than they’re comfortable with—let them share stories when they’re ready, and remember to listen.
3. Allow for Extra Sleep
While you may have enjoyed those peaceful weeks of fewer kids around, your campers are likely exhausted. Whether they spent one week or eight at camp, they probably didn’t get the sleep they’re used to at home. Expect them to crash right after devouring everything in the kitchen or to sleep in for days. Keep plans light in the days following their return.
4. Embrace the Mess
They will return dirty, missing items, and their clothes may be ruined. This is just a sign of a summer well spent! Try not to get frustrated over their muddy feet or the pink socks that used to be white. They were too busy enjoying their time to worry about trivial things like cleanliness or where they left their belongings. Give them time to shower and help salvage what you can.
5. Recognize Changes
Your campers may look taller, tanner, or even more mature when they return. Beyond physical changes, they might exhibit newfound confidence and independence. They’ve navigated challenges, made friends, and grown in ways you might not realize. Take the time to get to know this new version of your child.
6. Be Understanding About Rules
Coming home is like returning from a world of freedom back to parental rules. Just as a college student may feel stifled returning home, campers may struggle with resuming household rules after enjoying a carefree camp life. Have patience as they readjust to your home’s expectations.
7. Know They Might Feel Camp-Sick
Many campers experience a form of sadness upon returning home—they miss their camp friends and the camp atmosphere. It’s not personal; they just need time to transition back to home life. They may retreat into their rooms or spend time online connecting with their camp friends. Give them space, and don’t take their distance to heart.
8. Stay Flexible
If your child expresses dissatisfaction with their camp experience, listen to their concerns. They might not have found their group or enjoyed the activities. Talk to the camp about their feedback, but also give your child time to process their feelings. If they decide they don’t want to return next summer, respect that choice. Our daughter initially had a negative experience at her first camp, but after a few years, she found a place she loves and now eagerly anticipates each summer.
9. Keep the Big Picture in Mind
If your child comes home dirty, tired, a bit hoarse, and overflowing with stories, take it as a win! They had a successful summer filled with experiences. So, take a break from the laundry, celebrate their return, and pat yourself on the back for surviving the summer.
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Summary
Re-entering home life after overnight camp can be a mixed experience for children and parents alike. From adjusting to mixed emotions and exhaustion to embracing the changes in your child, these tips can help facilitate a smoother transition. Remember to listen, be patient, and appreciate the growth your child has experienced during their time away.