We’re “that family.” We have food allergies, and it’s not just a mild concern. Our son has faced life-threatening reactions, and as a mother, the anxiety is ever-present. I understand that the signs indicating a peanut-free or dairy-free environment can sometimes elicit eye rolls and sighs from other parents. I get it—it can feel like an inconvenience. But I assure you, our lives involve far more than just navigating birthday treats.
Here are eight heartfelt requests from a worried but hopeful mom:
- Please be patient with us.
Try to put yourself in our shoes for a moment. Imagine the fear of nearly losing your child because of a seemingly harmless bowl of cereal or a piece of candy. It’s a nightmare that has played out for us. - Feel free to ask about labeling.
I don’t expect you to investigate food labels like I do. With so many companies out there, it’s hard to know which ones can be trusted. That’s why I’m always on the phone, checking for safety. - Understand that an EpiPen isn’t a guarantee.
While the commercials make it seem straightforward, using an EpiPen is part of a much larger process. It’s vital to take allergies seriously; the situation doesn’t end after an injection. - Act quickly in case of a reaction.
Reactions can come back even after the epinephrine has been administered. This has happened to both my son and me, and it’s just as terrifying the second time around. Quick action is crucial. - Be mindful of cross-contamination.
Peanuts and nut oils can lurk in unexpected places, from soil to lotions. Even a simple high-five could pose a risk. Please don’t take offense if my son hesitates to engage; it’s about his safety. - Know that using an EpiPen is important to us.
I remember my first time using it; it was terrifying. We need to have two EpiPens on hand at all times. This is a big deal for our family, and it affects my son deeply. - Please don’t take it personally if my child declines your allergy-free treats.
He’s been taught to only eat food from home to minimize risks, and while we appreciate your kindness, it’s a necessary precaution. - I hope you’ll do your best to honor allergy requests.
Imagine your child facing these challenges. No parent wants their child to be excluded or to feel left out. I want my son to feel safe and included at school, just like every other child.
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In summary, having a child with food allergies is a complex challenge that requires understanding and cooperation from everyone involved. I appreciate your support and willingness to create a safer environment for all children.