While my three-year-old son has a long road ahead filled with learning and growth, I’ve noticed that he’s already grasped some important life lessons that many adults, including my husband, might benefit from revisiting. Here are thirteen insights from my toddler that I believe could enhance my husband’s approach to life and love.
1. Compliments Matter
When I’m at my wits’ end, my son often surprises me with a sweet compliment that instantly brightens my mood. Just recently, after I asked him to sit still, he exclaimed, “Mommy, I love your hair!” In that moment, all my frustration melted away. A simple compliment can work wonders, and I’d love for my husband to remember that it can turn my day around, too.
2. Apologize First
When tempers flare, my son is quick to say he’s sorry, whether he’s right or wrong. My husband, however, tends to analyze the situation before offering an apology. A heartfelt “I’m sorry” can be the magic word to soften any disagreement and I wish he’d embrace this approach more often.
3. Ask for Help
My son isn’t shy about seeking assistance when he needs it. In contrast, my husband often struggles with pride and attempts to tackle issues alone, even when I could solve them in a snap. It’s okay to ask for help; it’s a sign of strength, not weakness!
4. Cuddle Just Because
My son enjoys cuddling without any hidden agenda, and I often wish my husband would do the same. While I appreciate his affection, sometimes I just want a hug without it leading to something more. A little affection goes a long way in making me feel loved.
5. Own Your Actions
Although my son isn’t potty trained yet, he proudly announces when he’s had an accident. I sometimes wish my husband would take a page from his book. Instead of blaming his “imaginary friend” for his mishaps, he could just own up to them. And by the way, the air freshener isn’t just a decoration!
6. Seek My Presence
My son thinks I’m the best thing since sliced bread and loves to hang out with me, even while I’m working. My husband, on the other hand, often retreats to his “man cave.” While I respect his need for solitude, I’d love for him to enjoy my company a bit more often.
7. Let Loose and Enjoy Life
My son can switch from serious to silly in an instant, and I think my husband could benefit from joining in our spontaneous dance parties. Life is too short to be serious all the time, and I want my husband to be able to enjoy the lighter moments, too.
8. Show Empathy
When I’m in pain, my son is quick to comfort me with a gentle touch and sweet words. In contrast, my husband often thinks I should just tough it out unless I’m visibly injured. A little empathy goes a long way in nurturing a loving relationship.
9. Be Tough, But Not Dramatic
My son is remarkably resilient, rarely complaining even when he gets hurt. Meanwhile, my husband tends to make a big fuss over minor injuries. While I appreciate the enthusiasm, sometimes less drama would be more effective.
10. Express Gratitude
My son has mastered the art of saying “thank you,” often for even the smallest gestures. Getting my husband to express gratitude, however, can feel like pulling teeth. A simple “thanks for dinner” would mean the world!
11. Share Joy and Laughter
My son finds joy in the little things, and his laughter is contagious. I wish my husband would share his own wonderful laugh more often. With some restful nights ahead, I’m hopeful we’ll both find more reasons to smile.
12. Cheer Each Other On
My son is my biggest fan, cheering for his dad with genuine excitement. I’d love for my husband to be just as enthusiastic about my achievements. It would mean so much to hear him celebrate my successes with the same fervor.
13. Embrace Mornings with Enthusiasm
My son wakes up ready to take on the world, while my husband often needs a jolt of coffee before he’s functional. A little more morning cheer would definitely brighten our days.
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In summary, my son may be young, but he has a lot to teach us about love, kindness, and enjoying life. If my husband can take a cue from these charming toddler traits, I’m certain he’ll find new ways to enhance our family dynamic and deepen our bond.
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