In today’s world, it feels like there’s an overwhelming amount of judgment directed at parents for their choices—whether they’re parenting actively or not. Whether at the park, the zoo, or scrolling through social media, we encounter a barrage of comments, disapproving glances, and whispers that seem to be everywhere. It can often feel like everyone has it all figured out, and I can’t help but think, Wow, I wish I could be as perfect as you all seem to be.
From swearing in front of our kids to deciding whether to breastfeed, enrolling in pre-K or opting for organic food—the list goes on and on. Each day, starting from the moment we bring our little ones home from the hospital (actually, even before that), we’re faced with countless decisions that will affect their lives. While some choices carry more weight than others, the relentless scrutiny over our parenting methods is exhausting.
We’re all doing our best. We know which battles to pick and, most importantly, we understand what’s truly best for our children, regardless of what others might think. As a mother to a lively 7-year-old and another child on the way, I wouldn’t call myself a parenting expert. But I do have some insights that may resonate with others.
Those little things we worry about—like cursing in front of our kids or other daily decisions—aren’t the ones that are truly going to mess them up. In reality, it’s the big picture that matters. Are your kids clothed? Fed? Attending regular medical check-ups? If you’re reading this article, I’m guessing your answers are likely “yes.”
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In summary, let’s choose to support one another as parents rather than criticize every decision we make. After all, we’re all just trying to do our best for our children.