When I was blessed with two amazing sons, I had a clear vision of how I wanted to raise them. Having encountered my fair share of difficult people, I was determined to steer them away from that path. While they may stumble at times, I will do my best to guide them. Here’s what I want them to understand:
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It’s Not About Size.
Yes, I mean both your physique and your financial status. There will always be someone who has more. Instead of chasing after the biggest and best, focus on being a kind person. Surround yourself with friends who appreciate you for who you are, not what you own. -
Drive Responsibly.
Whether you just got your license or are driving a fancy car, remember to respect the road. You’re not untouchable, and reckless driving won’t impress anyone. -
Communicate Honestly in Relationships.
If you’re intimate with someone, make sure to respect their boundaries. If they say no—whether once or repeatedly—take that as the final answer. If you find yourself in trouble because of your actions, know that I won’t be there to bail you out. You are solely responsible for your choices and their consequences. Be clear about your intentions in a relationship, whether you’re looking for something casual or serious. -
Be Observant.
Pay attention to the world around you. If it’s a beautiful night, step outside and enjoy the stars. If you see a need and you can help, do it. Recognize the little things, like when someone close to you needs support. -
Kindness and Generosity Matter.
Being generous—whether through tipping, donating, or simply giving your time—can make a significant impact. Everyone has their struggles, so remember that kindness can go a long way. -
Don’t Worry About Others’ Opinions.
Be true to yourself and embrace who you are. If others don’t share your interests, that’s even more reason to pursue them. -
Choose a Partner Who Inspires You.
If marriage is in your future, don’t settle for less than someone who genuinely makes you happy. Choose someone who brings joy and encouragement to your life, not just someone who meets external expectations. -
Embrace Your Emotions.
A man who can connect with his feelings is incredibly attractive. Don’t shy away from expressing your emotions, even if it means shedding a tear during a movie. -
Seek Help When Needed.
There’s no shame in asking for help. Build relationships with people who are willing to support you, and remember to return the favor. -
Actions Speak Louder Than Words.
If you commit to something, follow through. This applies not just to small promises, but to the significant commitments in life. Your true character is revealed through your actions, not just your words. Aim to be a good man—one who leaves a positive impression on others.
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In conclusion, these lessons are meant to guide you toward becoming a kind and responsible individual. By embracing these principles, you’ll not only build meaningful relationships but also contribute positively to the world around you.