Hey there,
I saw you at the pool with your son. He seemed to be around 11 or 12, and I couldn’t help but notice how he held your hand. At that age, most boys shy away from such displays, but there you were, navigating the waters of a family vacation.
I observed you scanning the pool area, looking for anything that might set off your son. You were on the lookout for the perfect spot—close to the exit and the water. When you encouraged him to get in, he hesitated, covering his ears. I watched as he sat on the edge, feet dangling in the water, his eyes squinting tight. Over time, he relaxed a bit, although his hands stayed near his head, occasionally flapping with joy.
You, your husband, and your daughter created a protective circle around him in the pool, all wearing smiles. Yet, I noticed you remained vigilant, always scanning the surroundings. I wanted to swim over and give you a fist bump or a high-five, but I had my own son to watch. I hoped you saw my smile—a genuine one, not filled with pity, but rather a warm acknowledgment of our shared experiences.
The next morning at breakfast, I spotted you again. You were starting the day just like us, navigating the challenges of vacation. I heard your son ask anxiously, “What time is it?” to which your husband replied, “It’s vacation. It doesn’t matter what time it is.” I sensed the tension in your sigh; you understood the importance of routine even if your husband didn’t.
I hope your vacation was enjoyable, even if it didn’t look like the typical idea of fun. I wish I could have expressed how comforting it was to see another family like ours. You made me feel less alone among the other families. It would have been lovely to share a laugh over a joke that only we could understand.
Perhaps you’ll come across this and realize you weren’t the only family with autism in your life at that resort. I hope we can find more families like ours in the future. It’s always nice to connect with others who understand, to lend support, share advice, or even just exchange a smile between two strangers at the pool.
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In summary, connecting with other families who share similar experiences can be heartwarming and reassuring. It reminds us that we’re not alone in our journey.