In today’s society, the topic of being “politically correct” can really stir up strong feelings. It’s a term that has been used in various ways over the years, often carrying both positive and negative connotations. Recently, it seems to have become a bit of a schoolyard jab—where saying someone is “politically correct” is akin to calling them “soft” or “timid.” However, I don’t view being considerate with language as a flaw. Instead, I see it as a vital lesson for my children.
From a young age, I’ve believed in the importance of understanding how our words can affect others. History is replete with examples of language that has been manipulated to justify terrible actions. Words wield significant power, whether we acknowledge it or not. As a writer, I’m particularly sensitive to how language is used and have been increasingly noticing that what some dismiss as “political correctness” is really about basic decency and respect.
When someone expresses that they’ve been hurt by certain language or actions, acknowledging their feelings shouldn’t be viewed as weakness. Yet, some people argue that they are simply being “honest” when they spout hurtful comments, often complaining about political correctness when confronted. Let me be clear: expressing what’s on your mind isn’t commendable if it involves being rude or bigoted.
The backlash against political correctness has allowed some to revert to less tolerant attitudes, as evidenced by the rise in visible prejudice and discrimination. It’s shocking to see adults behaving like children, reveling in the idea that they are dismantling societal norms by jettisoning basic human respect. I refuse to watch that happen. If being “politically correct” just means avoiding being disrespectful, then that’s exactly the behavior I want to instill in my kids.
Before dismissing the concept of political correctness, we should consider its definition. According to Merriam-Webster, it means being mindful of language and actions that could offend specific groups. This sounds like a reasonable and civilized approach to me! I want my kids to understand that their choices in words and actions can either contribute to harmony among diverse groups or exacerbate divisions.
Are there times when people get offended too easily? Absolutely. Is it possible to navigate life without ever offending someone? Not at all. But that doesn’t excuse us from striving to be thoughtful and considerate. What message are we sending our kids if we simply give up on being kind because it might not be appreciated?
While it’s true that any ideology can be taken to an extreme, the challenges of political correctness are far less daunting than the consequences of abandoning common courtesy. I want my children to appreciate that words and actions have weight and that being respectful is far more important than dismissing it as “politically correct.”
I refuse to accept a world where kindness is seen as a flaw, and insensitivity is celebrated. I want my family to stand for decency, understanding, and compassion. If that makes us politically correct, then so be it. I’ll gladly teach my children to choose kindness over ignorance any day. For more insight on this topic, check out this informative resource on artificial insemination, which discusses the nuances of family planning.
In summary, teaching kids to be considerate and mindful of language is not only important but necessary. It helps foster understanding and peace in a diverse world, where kindness should prevail over insensitivity.