If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “Wow, I sound just like my mom!” then you’re in for a delightful realization. It turns out, our mothers were right about nearly everything. I was reminded of this when I found myself shouting at my daughter, “You don’t need to take a bath for hours! No one needs to be that clean!”
My mom had an uncanny ability to predict the lifespan of my relationships well before I met my partner. Her insights on my enthusiasm for various hobbies and trends were consistently accurate. As I navigated adulthood, she offered advice on everything from finances to childbirth methods, all while I groaned in exasperation. It wasn’t until I immersed myself in the chaos of motherhood that I truly recognized how wise she was. And for all those eye rolls and heavy sighs I directed at her over the years, I owe her a heartfelt apology.
Here’s a list of 25 things my mom was undeniably correct about:
- Every woman deserves a well-fitted bra.
- A great lipstick can give you a powerful boost—think Tina Fey-level confidence.
- Marriage isn’t a romantic movie; it’s more like a retirement plan that demands effort and commitment.
- Some relationships are just for fun, while others are meant for the long haul. Learn to tell the difference.
- If your leftovers resemble a science fair project, toss them out.
- Change your underwear daily. Seriously.
- Money may not grow on trees, but it can grow steadily with smart investments.
- Moderation is key, especially with fun things like alcohol and intimacy.
- Consider whether a tattoo is a wise choice. In your 80s, that cute star design might resemble something entirely different.
- Speaking ill of friends or foes? It’ll come back to bite you when you least expect it.
- Avoid posting foolish things online that future employers might see.
- You won’t perish without a pony, but you will without air, water, or food. Know your needs versus wants.
- A true friend forgives you even when you act like a jerk.
- Keep business and pleasure separate.
- Dieting constantly isn’t the way to live. Enjoy life and indulge in that slice of cake occasionally.
- Size doesn’t always matter—unless we’re discussing something else. Wait, what are we on about?
- No amount of makeup can stop aging. Embrace those unique features that come with time.
- Mastering stain removal can save you a fortune on dry cleaning and new clothes.
- Your child will have their moments of being a brat, but so will you.
- Treat your feet well! Invest in good shoes.
- Your vagina isn’t just a trinket. Period.
- Cars lose value the moment you drive them off the lot—opt for reliability over flashiness.
- Some things stick with you—like herpes.
- Sometimes, silence is golden. Be that person who listens without needing to reply.
- Never go to bed angry; it leads to wrinkles.
Moms are incredible. They nurture us, love us, and impart their wisdom, shaping us into better individuals. The next time you hear your mother’s words coming from your mouth, take a moment to appreciate the invaluable lessons she has shared.
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Summary:
This article highlights 25 lessons learned from mothers, emphasizing their wisdom in various aspects of life, from relationships to personal care. It serves as a reminder of the invaluable life lessons passed down through generations.