Pregnancy can be an emotional rollercoaster, and navigating conversations with an expecting mother—especially if she’s hungry and hormonal—can be a delicate task. Here are ten topics that many pregnant women would rather not discuss.
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Due Date
“So, when are you due? How much longer do you have? You look like you’re about to burst!”
Let’s just say that a pregnant woman’s patience can be stretched thin, especially as her due date approaches. After experiencing multiple pregnancies, I’ve become quite skilled at dodging these questions. When asked about my due date, I’ve learned to smile and say, “Yep, any day now!” hoping I won’t run into them again. -
Weight
“Wow, you’ve gained quite a bit! Are they sure it’s just one baby in there?”
Yes, I’ve gained weight, but it’s none of your business! If you’d like to join me at my next appointment, maybe the doctor can ease your concerns. And yes, I’m still hungry and plan to finish my meal. If all goes well, I’ll deal with baby weight later. -
Labor and Delivery Choices
“Are you planning for a natural delivery? You wouldn’t want an epidural, right?”
Thanks for your input! It’s comforting to know how invested you are in my birth plan. But honestly, whether I push or have a C-section, both are heroic feats. I just hope to make it through regardless of how my baby makes their entrance. -
Appearance
“Wow, you look exhausted! Are you feeling okay?”
Thanks for the concern, but yes, I’m tired and feeling massive. I’m up all night, but it’s nice to know you noticed how I look. Apologies for the eyesore as I waddle through the next few months! -
Family Size
“Was this baby planned? How are you going to afford another?”
My decision to expand my family isn’t up for debate. I didn’t realize I needed your approval for our family planning. Perhaps you should discuss your concerns with someone else, since our choices are really none of your business. -
Baby Names
“So, what name have you picked? Is that really how you’re spelling it?”
If you’re so worried about our child’s name, perhaps you should help us with the spelling during kindergarten! Remember, it’s our baby, and we’ll choose the name we love, regardless of your opinion. -
Pregnancy Dos and Don’ts
“Are you sure that’s safe for the baby? I wouldn’t be doing that!”
I appreciate your unsolicited advice, but every pregnancy is different. Trust that I’m making choices that are right for me, based on my doctor’s guidance. -
Your Experience vs. Mine
“When I was pregnant…”
While your experiences may have been challenging, every pregnancy is unique. There’s no need to compare stories. We’re all on our own journeys! -
Maternity Leave
“How long are you taking off work? Isn’t that a bit short?”
Thank you for your concern, but I assure you, I’m aware of what I’m doing. Your words do little to ease my anxiety about leaving my baby, so I’d appreciate your kindness instead. -
Parenting Choices
“Are you breastfeeding? Using cloth diapers?”
I plan to take care of my baby the best way I know how. If you want to know more, feel free to drop by at 2 a.m. when I’m up with the little one!
Remember, unless you’re asked for advice, it’s best to keep your comments to yourself. When you encounter a pregnant woman, a friendly smile and a compliment go a long way.
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Summary
Pregnant women often face a barrage of unsolicited comments and questions about their due dates, weight, and parenting choices. It’s crucial to be mindful of their feelings and respect their privacy during this unique time. A simple smile or kind word is usually the best way to engage with an expecting mother.