Updated: Aug. 3, 2016
Originally Published: April 22, 2016
In a recent announcement, Target revealed a policy allowing transgender individuals to use the restroom that aligns with their gender identity. This decision sparked outrage among certain groups, leading to a flood of negative comments on social media and calls for a boycott from organizations claiming that this policy endangers women and children. With all due respect, I think that’s a bit misguided.
As a parent, I’ve seen countless responses to this topic, primarily rooted in fear and misunderstanding. One comment on my professional page stood out: “How could you support transgender bathrooms as a mother? You’re inviting predators into the restroom with your daughter just because someone claims to identify as a woman.”
There are many ways I could counter this argument. For starters, a simple restroom sign will never stop a true predator. It’s also deeply troubling to equate the transgender community with sexual predators. In reality, the vast majority of child sexual abuse is committed by someone the child knows—often a family member. If we’re truly concerned about child safety, we should focus on those statistics instead.
The truth is, many individuals aren’t genuinely worried about their daughters or wives. What they fear is the challenge of broadening their understanding and compassion towards those who are different from them. Discriminating against others may seem easier than fostering empathy.
It’s crucial to recognize that teaching kids to discriminate against transgender individuals sends a harmful message. We have the opportunity to shape a more inclusive and understanding world. If you’re truly committed to protecting your children from negativity, don’t use them as a shield for your own prejudices.
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In summary, let’s focus on teaching our children love and acceptance rather than fear and hate. By setting a positive example, we can help create a kinder world for everyone.