In a delightful chat, Chris Evans opened up about a funny interaction with his daughter that many parents can relate to. Kids have a knack for asking the most unexpected questions, and figuring out how to respond can be quite the challenge. Recently, Chris found himself in one of those situations when his four-year-old daughter expressed her desire to have a penis like her brothers.
During a conversation with talk show host Lisa, Evans discussed his recent film and the importance of strong female figures for his daughter, who is the big sister to his two-year-old twin boys. He noted a bit of sibling rivalry brewing, with his daughter feeling a tinge of jealousy. “My little girl is kind of wishing she had what her brothers have,” he shared.
When she approached him, she said, “Papa, I want one of those things that my brothers have.” Confused, Chris asked her to clarify, and she pointed out “the thing in between the legs that you have.” Chris then gently explained, “You’ve got breasts and a vagina,” but she quickly interrupted, declaring, “I don’t want breasts!” When he finally confirmed she wanted a penis, she enthusiastically replied, “Yes, I want a penis!”
Despite the initial surprise, Chris handled the moment with grace, telling her, “You know what, you can be anything you want to be.” Her response? A cheerful “Thanks, Dad!” before she ran off to the playground, leaving Chris chuckling.
This adorable story resonates with all parents who have navigated similar conversations. My own four-year-old has made attempts to stand and pee “like daddy,” expressed her reluctance to grow “big bumps” like me, and asked about her own “long finger in my pants.” Kids are curious about gender and body parts, and these light-hearted discussions are crucial. They help children feel comfortable expressing themselves and teach them that everyone has the right to be who they want to be.
Some parenting moments catch you off guard, but as Chris’s response demonstrates, keeping things light and loving is the best way to handle them. If you’re interested in more insights and resources on topics like this, check out our other blog posts here. For those looking into home insemination, you can also find valuable information from Make a Mom and UCSF’s Center.
In summary, Chris Evans’s humorous and warm response to his daughter’s innocent inquiry exemplifies the joys and challenges of parenting. It’s these moments of curiosity that open the door for important conversations about identity and acceptance.