I’ll be honest—I’m relieved to have my pregnancies behind me. My second one felt like it dragged on forever. However, now that I’m no longer a heavily pregnant woman facing the looming arrival of a baby, I find myself reminiscing about the perks that made those months quite special. If you’re currently navigating the ups and downs of pregnancy, take a moment to appreciate the joys—you may find you miss them once it’s over.
1. Strangers Show You Kindness
We all know how tough the world can be. In my neighborhood, there were folks I’d passed for years without a smile, but once I was pregnant, it was like I had an invisible halo. They weren’t smiling at me—they were smiling at my growing belly.
2. Your Hair is on Point
One delightful surprise of pregnancy is the glorious hair. It doesn’t shed like it normally does, resulting in a full, shiny mane. My partner, who usually gripes about my hair clogging the drain, didn’t have a single complaint for months! Enjoy this phase because many women face hair loss postpartum.
3. Forgetfulness is Forgiven
Pregnancy brain is a real phenomenon, and everyone seems to understand. You can forget things left and right, and it’s perfectly acceptable. Just remember, once the baby arrives, pregnancy brain transitions into baby brain, and the forgetfulness continues—yay!
4. Your Belly Balances Your Figure
Strangely enough, during my pregnancies, I felt more proportionate. With a big belly leading the way, my backside looked a bit smaller—what a confidence boost!
5. Tears are Totally Normal
Pregnancy brings out the emotions, and you can cry at the drop of a hat without anyone batting an eye. I once sobbed over a bagel mishap, and instead of judgment, I received sympathy. Thank you, pregnancy movies!
6. Food is Always Offered
This should probably be at the top of the list. Everyone wants to feed you, which is a delightful experience. It’s like being treated like royalty with people constantly saying, “Eat! Eat!”
7. Nails that Dazzle
Pregnancy hormones can work wonders on your nails, making them long and strong—something I usually struggle with. It’s a hidden gem of being pregnant!
8. The Nap Culture is Real
Naps become an essential part of your day, and everyone understands. No one will judge you for catching up on sleep when you’re not busy with other tasks. Enjoy this luxury because it may not last long after the baby arrives.
9. A Bit of Attitude is Accepted
Feeling cranky? No problem! You can express your emotions freely, and people will give you a pass. It’s a nice break from social norms.
10. Chivalry is Alive
Pregnancy brings out the gentlemen! You’ll find that people are more inclined to offer you their seat, a lovely reminder of kindness that lasts only nine months.
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In summary, while pregnancy can be challenging, there are many aspects you may find yourself missing once it’s over—from the unexpected kindness of strangers to the luxury of naps. Embrace the moments, and don’t forget to enjoy the perks while they last!