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- When They’ve Outgrown Their Babyhood
by Mia Thompson
April 4, 2023
On the other side of babyhood, you find long legs poking out of shorts and stomachs that always seem ready for more food, alongside the growing pains from all the cells expanding to form real, unique individuals.
On the other side of babies, gray hairs emerge in the most unexpected places, causing you to pause momentarily before you snip them away and carry on with your day.
On the other side of babies, there are parking lots where you linger—waiting, chatting about school events, or even taking a moment to hide away on days that feel just too much.
On the other side of babies, you experience cycles that no longer behave as they once did.
On the other side of babies, there are still smelly little bodies that curl up to you, seeking comfort, safety, or simply a hug because they love you.
On the other side of babies, you share knowing glances when explaining why we make certain choices or practice kindness and compassion.
On the other side of babies, there are those blissful moments of sleep—until they learn to drive, that is.
On the other side of babies is a newfound acceptance of your body, reshaped and redefined by the very children who once depended on you.
On the other side of babies, there are leaps of faith as they venture into the world, and as you step back to let them go.
On the other side of babies, you mourn the little things: the scent of their soft necks, the gentle snores, and the comforting weight of their small forms.
On the other side of babies is a sense of space that once felt too empty but is now something you both yearn to fill again.
On the other side of babies are young individuals you’re nurturing, hoping they’ll grow into kind-hearted people.
On the other side of babies, you find small, empty bags instead of the overflowing diaper bags of old.
On the other side of babies, your thoughts become truly your own once more.
And on the other side of babies, there’s you—rediscovering who you are again.
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Summary:
This piece reflects on the transformative journey from babyhood to growing children, embracing the bittersweet experiences of parenting as kids grow more independent. It touches on the changes in both the children and the parents, highlighting the emotional nuances and the joys of watching them flourish.