In a heartwarming tale from California, a dad named Jake embraces his son’s love for makeup in a wonderfully supportive way. Little Alex has been giving makeovers to dolls and family members for years, so when he asked his dad if he could do his makeup, Jake enthusiastically agreed. “Why wouldn’t I want to join in on something that brings my son joy?” Jake shared on the blog, Raising My Rainbow.
Jake and his partner, Sarah, use their blog to document their parenting journey with Alex, who identifies as gender nonconforming. “Children come to us with their gender fully intact. It’s as natural as being left-handed or having curly hair,” Sarah explained to Home Insemination Kit. “As parents, it’s crucial for us to accept that our child’s gender identity and expression may differ from the sex they were assigned at birth. We need to be open to the gender they express.”
Quality Time and Acceptance
What better way to show acceptance than by spending quality time together? “When Alex does my makeup, it feels like we’re sharing an experience that he loves. When I engage with him about different makeup shades that suit my skin tone, I’m teaching him that his tastes and opinions matter,” Jake wrote. “My son doing my makeup is akin to a dad tossing a football with his son. It’s not about the activity itself, but about the time spent together. It’s about encouraging our children to connect with us and sharing moments doing what they enjoy.”
Reminiscing, Jake recalls how he and his sibling would play with their mom’s makeup when they were young, and it seems Alex is having just as much fun. “He loves to do my makeup because he can make me look silly or dramatic, and it always cracks him up. Sometimes he gets really serious about it, like he’s on a mission to make me look fabulous,” Jake noted. “Other times it turns into more of a playful face-painting session. Either way, he enjoys it, and I love being involved in something he’s passionate about.”
A Journey of Connection
Jake’s story is just one of many personal anecdotes the family has shared. Sarah began the blog in 2011 after struggling to find resources for families like theirs. “It was a tough decision, but we thought being open about our journey could help us connect with others. I wanted to find resources and families similar to ours, but I couldn’t, so I started this blog in hopes of reaching out,” she explained. Their story has resonated with countless families, attracting over a million readers. “We definitely don’t feel isolated anymore,” Sarah shared.
Despite facing some negativity online and in person, the family remains undeterred. Sarah expressed, “We’ve come to understand that some people may dislike our family because of our child’s gender nonconformity and our parenting choices. However, the love we receive from sharing our journey far outweighs the negativity. Love always prevails.”
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In summary, Jake and Sarah’s approach to parenting their son Alex showcases the importance of acceptance and quality time, breaking down gender stereotypes through fun and creativity.