When people discover that I’m a mother of triplets, they’re often eager to learn how I manage them day-to-day. Most are curious about the experience itself. My typical responses range from “It’s exactly as chaotic as you’d imagine” to “Picture three of your child all at once.” However, for many, it’s tough to truly grasp what that entails. I can relate—I was in the same boat before my trio arrived. I recall watching a friend juggle her twins when my oldest was just a baby, and I thought to myself that I could never handle twins. Luckily for me, I never had to; I jumped straight into the whirlwind of triplets.
So, what is it like to have triplets? Here’s a glimpse into my world of raising triplet toddlers.
Having triplets means washing pee-soaked bed sheets nearly every morning. It means going through 212 newborn diapers in just eight days. It’s fielding intrusive questions from strangers like, “Are they natural?” or “Did you have to, you know, get busy three times in one night?” Imagine getting through an entire pitcher of formula in a single day. There’s a constant symphony of “me too” whenever one of them wants something.
As the mom of triplets, you might find that other parents sometimes look down on you for your kids’ group mentality, but secretly, it’s heartwarming to see them support each other. Plus, your kids always have a playmate, meaning you get a little more time to yourself—when they’re not getting into trouble, that is! Picture one child stuffing a t-shirt in the toilet, another coloring on the wall, and the third jumping off the couch—all at once.
You’ll find yourself doing a headcount at every playground visit because they rarely stick together outside the house. There are moments when you feel like a failure because one of them has to “cry it out” since you can only hold two at a time. You pray for just two hours of uninterrupted sleep, which feels like a luxury. And let’s not forget the lingering scent of baby vomit—if only it could become a trendy perfume!
You’ll likely become the proud driver of a minivan, and the joy of receiving three simultaneous “I love you, mommy” hugs is unmatched. Naturally, you’ll have to endure judgmental glares and eye rolls from others. Yet, mastering the art of rocking, burping, and feeding a baby concurrently becomes second nature.
Every day can feel like a scavenger hunt for three different lovies to soothe your cranky toddlers into naptime. You’ll develop an uncanny ability to understand three separate stories being told at the same time. Balancing their identities as individuals while fostering their bond as triplets is a task in itself. You’ll find yourself standing firm against three little negotiators who are always pushing boundaries.
With thirty fingernails and toenails to trim, you’ll be reaching for three sippy cups from the cupboard constantly. You’ll only go through each developmental stage once, but the pride you feel in managing to get dressed and leave the house with triplets is immense.
In essence, raising triplets can be a wild ride… except when it’s not! Now, doesn’t the idea of having sex three times in one night sound appealing in hopes of having your own trio? For more insights, check out our post on what to expect after having triplets.
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Summary
Raising triplets is a unique adventure filled with challenges and joys. From diaper changes to bedtime stories, it’s a constant whirlwind of activity that requires patience, creativity, and a sense of humor. Whether fielding questions from onlookers or managing their antics at home, the experience is unlike any other.
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