As you step into the world, my hope for you is simple: never lose your love for the color purple. I want you to always declare, “Purple is my favorite!” with the same enthusiasm you have now. As you grow and explore new environments like preschool or sports teams, there may be people who mistakenly suggest that the things you adore are not meant for you.
I’ve already witnessed the beginning of this misunderstanding. Just a few weeks ago, while we were at a children’s clothing store, I saw the sales clerk react to your excitement over a pair of lavender skinny jeans. You were twirling around, completely absorbed in your joy, and you didn’t notice her sigh or eye roll. It stung because, unfortunately, those jeans were labeled for girls, but you only saw your favorite color and knew immediately that they were for you.
Sadly, this attitude isn’t just limited to clothing. You will encounter others who might respond negatively to your unique preferences, and someday you may feel their judgment. There are little boys who once adored purple or pink, but as they entered daycare or preschool, they quickly dropped those colors for something more traditionally masculine. They might claim to love orange or blue now, but that’s not you. I hope you embrace who you truly are and don’t feel pressured to conform.
My greatest wish is for you to stand up for the things you love, rather than altering yourself to fit someone else’s expectations. I hope you become an example for everyone, showing that a boy can appreciate both purple and dump trucks, enjoy kisses and roughhousing, love sparkles and dinosaurs, wear headbands and cargo shorts. This isn’t about balancing out interests; it’s about embracing all of who you are. You, the boy I adore, with dirt on your face and chipped nail polish from playing outside. You are perfect in your unabashed authenticity.
I believe that your carefree nature comes from the fact that, up until now, no one has tried to box you in with definitions of what it means to be a boy. Your father and I have deliberately created an environment where it doesn’t matter if you prefer trucks or ponies or anything in between. What matters is that you love yourself and accept your unique individuality.
Right now, you are just you—unencumbered by societal expectations or peer pressure. However, I know that as you grow older, this blissful ignorance will fade. I want to hold you close and remind you how much I love your joyful, skipping run. You don’t need to walk with a tough swagger to be a boy. Some traits that seem odd or different may actually become your greatest strengths.
So, as you venture into the world, remember: Cherish your shine, buddy.
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In summary, always embrace your individuality and love what makes you unique. Life is about celebrating all aspects of yourself, so never let anyone dim your shine.