Dear Perfect Mom in the Facebook Comments,

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First off, thank you for taking the time to enlighten us all about how your parenting journey is a shining beacon of excellence compared to our chaotic, imperfect lives. Your posts about how “My child would never do that,” or “I can’t relate to your struggles,” really uplift us, reminding us of our supposed shortcomings. Truly, your insights are nothing short of inspiring.

However, I must ask: does that stick up your rear ever bother you when you take a seat? Does it dig in deeper, or have you just grown accustomed to it by now?

I wonder if you have any real-life friends, or if your social interactions are just about trying to outdo others with your parenting tales. Your social skills seem a bit lacking, perhaps like a worn-out shoe.

Here’s a Little Reality Check

Criticizing someone’s parenting when they’re simply trying their best or venting is not just rude; it’s downright inconsiderate. Did you know that? Being a judgmental parent is actually worse than being a “clueless” one.

I can’t help but think you might be a first-time parent. Spoiler alert: having one or two easy children doesn’t guarantee a smooth ride forever. We’re all waiting for the day when you meet a little one who truly challenges you—it’s coming.

And to all the parents out there with a wild first child, hang in there! If your perfect little angel is still a baby, maybe it’s best to sit this one out. Babies are just a warm-up for the real parenting challenges that toddlers and older kids bring.

Every mom of three or more can tell you that kids come in all temperaments. Some arrive like little monks, while others come out swinging.

Condescending Comments

It’s worth noting that your comments come across as condescending rather than supportive. You may think you’re superior, but you just seem mean-spirited. Every parent has their ups and downs, and when you flaunt your good days in the face of someone struggling, it’s simply not kind.

If your aim is to help, there are ways to do it without sounding like a bully. Keep judging and bragging if you wish, but remember—your attitude is teaching us exactly how we don’t want our kids to grow up.

A Wake-Up Call

Also, if you don’t have kids, please give yourself a little wake-up call. Offering advice based on TV shows or distant memories is like someone claiming to be a dog trainer after watching a few episodes of a cartoon. We all have opinions, but smart people know when to keep them to themselves. You don’t know the challenges other parents face daily. If you’re not ready to help with compassion, then just keep quiet. This isn’t a spectator sport!

Resources for Parents

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In Summary

Be mindful of how your words affect those around you. Choose kindness instead of judgment, and remember that every parent is doing their best in their unique circumstances.

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