As my daughter wrapped up her freshman year at university last May, I was reminded of the unmistakable scent of teenage life that had taken over our home. If you have a high schooler, you likely know this aroma—it’s a blend of unwashed clothes, empty soda cans, and sneakers that have seen better days. When we dove into her bags, I couldn’t help but chuckle as we unpacked dirty dishes, laundry, and forgotten cleaning supplies.
For those parents preparing for their own drop-offs soon, here are ten things to keep in mind:
- Your child will probably avoid cleaning their room. Take a quick peek on move-in day and consider it your last visit.
- Even with a meal plan, expect your student to spend their money on lattes, fast food, and takeout.
- It’s wise to part ways with those fancy bathroom mats you bought. Opt for inexpensive ones instead.
- Purchase a foam mattress pad; it significantly enhances their sleep quality. My daughter mentioned it felt like a whole new bed when she tried it without.
- If you decide to visit your student mid-year, come armed with large trash bags. You’ll likely find stacks of empty snack boxes and drink containers.
- Invest in a safe and secure it to their bed on the first day. This is crucial for protecting their electronics and personal items from theft.
- You no longer have access to their grades. Yes, you may be footing the bill, but your child is now a legal adult. Communicate clearly that if you’re paying, you expect to see the academic results.
- Skip the university’s care package options; they’re often filled with junk food. Instead, send practical items like socks, underwear, and essentials they might have overlooked.
- Fill their fridge with bottled water. It’s likely the last time it will stay stocked!
- Understand that when you pick up your child from college, they are no longer your “baby.” They’ve transformed into a young adult—cleaning up after them will still be up to you, though!
Remember, freshman year is a significant transition. The later years will be filled with memories that truly define the college experience. Don’t be disheartened if your child takes time to adjust!
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Summary
Entering freshman year can be overwhelming for both your child and you. Prepare for their messy habits, unexpected expenses, and the reality that they are growing up. Equip them with essentials and support them through this transition, and remember, this is just the beginning of their college journey.
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