In the world of television news, developing a thick skin is essential. While we report the news, countless viewers are tuning in, and some are ready to critique. Recently, I received a comment on a story I covered about a program aimed at teaching families to cook nutritious meals. Rather than focusing on the content, a viewer decided to comment on my appearance, stating, “She looks like she eats healthy,” followed by a sarcastic emoticon. While he didn’t directly call me “fat,” the implication was clear, and sadly, it’s not the first time I’ve faced such criticism. People often get inventive with their insults, referring to my body as “lumpy” or suggesting I have “below-average looks.” Though I’ve grown accustomed to this over time, I remember a decade ago when such remarks would leave me in tears, consumed by the notion that I wasn’t liked.
I understand that criticism is part of the job, and while constructive feedback is welcome, the harsh comments can sting. With age comes perspective, and I’ve learned to let the negativity roll off my back. I may not fit the mold of a tall, blonde supermodel, and I recognize that I’m not “thin,” but my health is what truly matters. I may never be a size 2, but I embrace my size 8 figure.
It had been a while since I encountered a hurtful remark about my looks, and when I did, it was disheartening—not for me, but for my daughter, Ella, who looks up to me with innocent admiration. Growing up, I didn’t have the internet at my fingertips, but Ella will. The anonymity of online platforms allows people to hurl insults without consequence, and that reality is frightening for me.
Modeling Self-Love for the Next Generation
How can I ensure Ella grows up with confidence and a positive body image? By modeling self-love. I embrace my body, with all its unique curves and imperfections. Over the past few years, I’ve undergone multiple surgeries, carried twins, and faced serious health challenges, and I consider my body remarkable! It may not be flawless, but I am proud of who I am, and I want Ella to see that. Every morning, as we brush our teeth, I hold her in front of the mirror, and we admire our reflections. I tell her she’s beautiful because it’s never too early to instill self-love in our children.
It has taken me years to become the person I am today, and I’m genuinely proud of my journey. As for that negative comment? A saying from my childhood rings true: Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me.
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In summary, while society often tries to impose unrealistic beauty standards, it’s crucial to cultivate self-acceptance and confidence, not just for ourselves but for the next generation.