Being a strict mom is no walk in the park. It can be mentally draining and often leaves me feeling on edge alongside my family. But let’s be real: raising kids who grow into kind, respectful adults isn’t a job for the faint-hearted. It takes guts, resilience, and a hefty dose of “strictness.” So, kids, bring on the sass, the eye rolls, the excuses, and all your antics—because I’m ready to take on the challenge of parenting head-on.
1. I’m Not Your Buddy.
When they’re little, it’s easy to maintain boundaries, but as they morph into tweens and teens, the temptation to be their best friend grows. Resist it! You have life experience on your side, and you’re not meant to be a 14-year-old’s pal.
2. I’m Here to Raise Amazing Kids, Not to Be Liked.
By “amazing,” I mean polite, respectful, and kind. You won’t learn those values from a mom who’s overly concerned about being popular. If you don’t like me now, that’s fine—I promise you’ll appreciate my approach someday.
3. Nagging Works—Science Says So.
There’s research suggesting that persistent reminders lead to success. So when I ask you to clean your room for the umpteenth time, remember, I’m just following the science!
4. I Have a Cool Partner.
Yes, your dad is the fun superhero of our household. When he walks in, it’s like a rock star has entered the room. That means I take on the role of the stricter parent, and trust me, I’m great at it—thanks to a little PMS!
5. It Gets Results.
I tried the gentle approach—believing in positive reinforcement and emotional connections. But with my four sons, that just didn’t cut it. Nothing gets their attention like a fierce look from me that could rival a scary movie villain.
6. It Takes a Community—As Long As They’re on Board.
Imagine if every parent at the playground pledged to call out bad behavior. I’d sign that contract in a heartbeat! I want fellow moms to share my philosophy so we can tackle parenting together.
7. Kids Will Squeeze the Nice Out of You.
While being kind is admirable, kids have a knack for exploiting that. They can spot a soft touch, and if you let them, they’ll push you to your limits. But once you ditch the overly nice persona, that’s when the real parenting begins.
8. I Refuse to Raise Manipulators.
It’s especially important since I’m raising boys. If they think they can pull one over on me just because I’m their mom, then I’ve failed. I won’t be a pushover; I’m here to teach them respect and integrity.
9. Want to Be Cool? Wait Until You’re a Grandparent.
Once the kids are grown and out of the house, the strictness fades, and it’s time to recharge those nice batteries—just in time for grandkids! We all know that if Mom says no, Grandma will say yes. I can’t wait to embrace that role!
In summary, being the strict mom is tough but necessary for raising children who are respectful and responsible. It’s not always easy, but the long-term benefits are worth it. For more insights on family and parenting, check out our privacy policy for additional resources.