I used to be an avid viewer of the show What Not to Wear on TLC, captivated by the dramatic transformations and the expert advice on dressing various body types. I was particularly drawn to the reveal moments and often found myself judging the participants’ fashion choices. The show frequently focused on moms who had seemingly abandoned their own style for the sake of family, leaving me puzzled by their reluctance to embrace the offered makeovers. Who wouldn’t want a $5,000 wardrobe and professional styling?
Now, as a stay-at-home mom myself, my perspective has shifted. I can relate to the frustration these women felt when their beloved sweatpants were taken away. Managing a household with young children is far from a fashion show; it’s a chaotic blend of playdates and meal prep, where comfort often triumphs over style.
When it comes to hair and makeup, the show’s beauty expert, Mia, introduced a “5 Minute Face.” However, I wish she would perfect the “5 Second Face.” Finding even five uninterrupted minutes in front of the mirror can feel impossible with little ones exploring every corner of the house. Those minutes can quickly turn into a scene of toddler chaos.
While Mia and her team might be fashion gurus, I pride myself on being a practical mom—someone who has curated a sensible wardrobe tailored for everyday life. I prefer the term “Practical Mom” to “frumpy,” as I maintain a good fitness level and favor comfortable yoga pants over trendy attire. Sure, I won’t win any awards for “Sexy Yoga Mom,” but I’m perfectly content.
I refuse to wear straight-leg jeans and blazers for errands, playground visits, or dinner prep. To me, that’s for date nights, not daily life. My clothing choices are intentional; they are designed to meet the demands of my active lifestyle. My running shoes provide the support I need when pushing a double stroller or chasing after toddlers. My yoga pants offer the flexibility to bend, squat, and engage with my children in play. A simple tee from a discount store allows me to embrace the messiness of parenting without worry.
I acknowledge and respect those who invest time in their beauty routines, yet I don’t see their choices as superior to mine. My decision to prioritize comfort over fashion isn’t rooted in insecurity; rather, it’s about embracing the opportunity to enjoy more time with my kids in the mornings. I choose to skip the morning rush and enjoy the moment instead.
I do make an effort to look presentable for special occasions or outings, but in my day-to-day life, I’m satisfied with my practical approach. The message my attire sends is clear: I’m focused on my children and my responsibilities, and I’m fine with that.
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In summary, my choice to embrace practicality over traditional beauty standards is a conscious one, rooted in my role as a mother. I celebrate those who prioritize beauty, but my priority is enjoying life with my children—sweatpants and all.