As you step into the world, my deepest wish for you is this: Always embrace your love for the color purple. When asked about your favorite color, I want you to proclaim, “Purple is my favorite!” with the same enthusiasm you have now. As you grow and explore beyond the comfort of home—into preschool, sports, and new friendships—some misguided individuals may attempt to persuade you that your passions are not suitable for you.
I’ve witnessed the first signs of this recently. A few weeks ago, in a children’s clothing store, I saw you excitedly requesting a pair of lavender skinny jeans. You were too caught up in twirling around with them to notice the saleswoman’s disapproving sigh and eye roll. It was painful to witness. Those jeans were tucked away in the girls’ section, but to you, they were simply your favorite color, and that’s all that mattered.
Sadly, you’re not alone in this. Many little boys, once enthusiastic about colors like purple or pink, have shifted their preferences to more “acceptable” boyish hues after entering daycare or preschool. They now claim to favor orange, blue, or green, but that’s not your path. I hope you always remain true to yourself and the things you love.
My greatest hope is that instead of conforming to societal expectations, you will boldly advocate for your interests. I envision you exemplifying that a boy can cherish purple while also enjoying dump trucks, kisses, elbow fights, sparkles, and dinosaurs. You are not defined by a single aspect; rather, you are a beautiful blend of all your interests. You, the boy I adore with a messy face and nail polish that reflects your playful spirit, are perfect just the way you are.
Your current freedom to be yourself is a result of our intentional parenting. Your father and I firmly believe that it doesn’t matter if you prefer trucks or ponies; what truly counts is your ability to accept and love yourself.
Right now, you are simply you—unaffected by societal norms or peer pressure. However, I recognize that as you grow older, this blissful ignorance may fade. I want to hold you close and remind you how much I cherish your joyful, carefree run. Not all boys need to conform to a tough demeanor. I want to reassure you that the qualities that may make you feel different can also become your greatest strengths.
So, as you navigate through life, I want you to remember this:
Hold on to your sparkle, kid.
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In summary, embrace the things that make you unique and don’t shy away from expressing who you are. The world needs your individuality and the light that you bring.