Finding the right balance between work and family can feel like an uphill battle, and many professionals often embellish the truth to make it work. A recent study from Boston University revealed that in a corporate culture that glorifies long hours, employees fall into three categories: those who genuinely put in the overtime, those who negotiate more family-friendly hours, and those—often men—who pretend to be part of the first group while actually belonging to the second. They strike covert agreements with colleagues who also have kids, ensuring that everyone covers for one another; they prioritize work trips that are conveniently close to home. The first and third groups reap the rewards during performance reviews, while the second group often faces consequences. The lesson? If you desire a family-friendly schedule while aiming for professional success, a little white lie may be necessary. Here are seven fibs to keep handy.
- I have a great rapport with that client. (The truth? That client is just down the street, making it easy for me to wrap up by 5:30.)
- Oops, I’ve got a client meeting on Friday at 3. (In reality, I’ll be taking care of the class turtle for the weekend.)
- Oh, I’m leading this project. (Sure, Jane is the official lead, but she’s home with her sick kid and I’m covering for her, so for now, I’m in charge. Just don’t call Jane unless you want to hear about her battle with norovirus.)
- We’re targeting 70% engagement by March. (I could hit 80%, but I want to seem like a hero without revealing that I’m juggling emails with one hand while feeding a turtle with the other.)
- This project plays to Jesse’s strengths, don’t you agree? (Jesse is more than capable of handling it. Trust me.)
- Jack and I are off-site for some big-picture strategizing tomorrow—see you on Friday. (Truth is, Jack and I are not doing anything related to work; it’s a teacher-development day, and our kids are home from school.)
- I’m currently in the field. (Actually, I’m dealing with a dead turtle.)
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In summary, while the workplace may push you to present an image of unwavering commitment, sometimes a little creativity in your storytelling can help you maintain that essential work-life balance.
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