The notion of humorously declaring, “I’m moving to Canada,” during times of national crisis has become quite common. Whether triggered by another mass shooting, political turmoil, or unexpected outcomes at award shows, it seems fashionable to joke about relocating to a place perceived as more stable. But when does this joking transition into serious contemplation about leaving your home country out of fear for your children’s safety?
Once, the thought of raising my kids anywhere but here seemed ludicrous. Yet, as the political climate grows increasingly hostile and a demagogue rises to disturbing prominence, the absurdity of leaving has morphed into a surreal possibility. It’s a concept that, for many, is becoming less unimaginable with each passing day.
I have traveled to various countries, including Canada—a common choice for those considering an escape. My experiences have been limited to vacations, so I cannot accurately claim to understand the daily realities of life there or elsewhere. However, I struggle to believe that America still holds the title of “greatest country on earth.” Every nation has its strengths and weaknesses, and there are certainly places with better maternity and paternity leave policies, more effective healthcare, stricter gun control, and superior education systems. You can find at least one place where political divisiveness is less rampant, where corporate influence is minimized, and where the safety of children is prioritized.
What concerns me most is not merely the violence that permeates our society; rather, it is the pervasive apathy and inaction that follow. The representatives we elect seem more committed to their financial backers than to the constituents they serve. The rise of a reality TV star as a political figure reflects a troubling trend of frustration and indifference among the populace.
I don’t claim to have all the answers regarding our societal issues—be it gun violence, mental health, racism, or political hostility. However, it is evident that many leaders are merely offering platitudes without genuine intent to address these problems. This has led many to gravitate towards those who promote division rather than unity.
Considering a move away from the U.S. was once unfathomable to me. Now, I find myself questioning what it means to be a patriot in a nation where inequality is rampant, violence is escalating, and the solutions offered are nothing more than thoughts and prayers. Or, more importantly, what does it mean to raise children in such an environment?
My children, a kindergartener and a newborn, are innocent to the political landscape. They don’t carry the weight of partisan beliefs. It’s time we set aside our divisions and take meaningful action—action beyond the likes of Donald Trump.
While I currently have no plans to leave, the ongoing tragedies and unsettling political developments have made the prospect of relocating increasingly plausible. My commitment to my children remains strong, but my confidence in the safety of our country is waning.
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Summary
The once humorous suggestion of moving to another country for safety has evolved into a serious consideration for parents in today’s volatile environment. As societal issues compound, the search for better living conditions for children becomes more pressing. Though currently content to stay, the fear for children’s safety prompts reflection on the future.