As a lactation consultant, my journey began with my own experience as a mother. I was unaware of what a lactation consultant truly did, or the complexities surrounding breastfeeding, including the intense debates often referred to as the “Mommy Wars.” My primary goal was simply to breastfeed my child, a task that proved to be quite challenging. My baby struggled to latch, often turning away as if I were offering something unappealing. It was a deeply disheartening experience, making me feel disconnected from both my body and my baby.
The day after my child was born, a group of compassionate doulas came to assist me. They skillfully guided my baby to my breast with a mix of support and resourcefulness, staying with me until I felt confident enough to do it on my own. However, they pointed out that becoming a lactation consultant required extensive training—around 2,000 hours of direct experience with breastfeeding mothers. This rigorous process involved college-level scientific coursework along with specialized training in lactation.
Years into my practice, I’ve noticed that not all mothers have the same positive experience I did. Some have expressed feeling pressured to breastfeed by their lactation consultants, and many have felt their voices were not heard. Unfortunately, some even reported feeling shamed when they chose to stop breastfeeding for personal reasons.
It’s important to recognize that not every individual providing breastfeeding support is a certified lactation consultant. There are various levels of breastfeeding supporters, including lactation counselors who may have only completed a short course. Board-certified lactation consultants, identified by the initials “IBCLC,” have completed the necessary training and thousands of hours in the field.
Common Misconceptions About Lactation Consultants
There are several misconceptions about lactation consultants and our role in supporting breastfeeding mothers. Here are a few clarifications:
- We Don’t Oppose Formula: While we advocate for the benefits of breastmilk, we acknowledge that formula can be a valid alternative for mothers who cannot produce enough milk or who choose not to breastfeed. Our priority is ensuring that all babies are fed adequately.
- Understanding Milk Production Challenges: We are acutely aware that not every mother can produce sufficient milk. Some babies struggle to extract milk effectively, and certain physical conditions may hinder milk production. Our goal is to assist mothers in maximizing their milk supply if that aligns with their wishes.
- We Care Deeply: It may sound cliché, but we genuinely empathize with our clients. We invest our time and energy into your breastfeeding journey, celebrating your successes and losing sleep over your struggles.
- Respecting Personal Choices: We understand that some mothers make the decision not to breastfeed for deeply personal reasons. Whether due to past trauma or medical incompatibility, we do not judge. Your choices are respected, and we are here to support you regardless of your path.
- Empowering Informed Decisions: Many mothers stop breastfeeding due to a lack of information. Our role is to provide comprehensive and relevant information tailored to your unique challenges, allowing you to make informed choices about your breastfeeding journey.
- Comfort with the Process: We have encountered numerous breastfeeding challenges, from sore nipples to diaper changes. You don’t need to feel shy around us; we’re here to help without judgment.
- Supporting Your Goals: Whether you aim to breastfeed exclusively, introduce formula, or breastfeed for a specific timeframe, we are here to support your individual goals. Your body and your baby—your decisions.
Many lactation consultants, including those I have worked alongside, initially sought help for their own breastfeeding challenges. They share a passion for giving mothers the resources they need to succeed.
Ultimately, our mission as lactation consultants is to meet mothers where they are, ensuring they achieve their breastfeeding goals with compassion, accurate information, and unwavering support. For more insights into related topics, check out this blog post.
In conclusion, lactation consultants play a vital role in helping mothers navigate their breastfeeding experiences, providing support, understanding, and empowerment throughout the journey.