A mother recently recounted an unsettling experience she had while breastfeeding her eight-month-old son in a gym café. After expressing concerns about being shamed for nursing in public, she was unexpectedly told to “stop acting like a victim” by a gym manager when she brought her grievances to light.
Emily’s Story
In a Facebook post, Emily Roberts explained that while attending a meeting at her local fitness center in Columbus, Ohio, her son became hungry, prompting her to nurse him. An employee approached her, suggesting she relocate to a more private area. Despite her polite decline, the employee continued to insist, claiming that the gym supported breastfeeding and genuinely wanted to accommodate her needs. Emily felt increasingly uncomfortable with the persistent pressure to move, stating, “I’m fine and clearly my sleeping son is too.”
A Frustrating Encounter
Feeling frustrated, she contacted her husband, who subsequently spoke with the gym manager, named Tom. To Emily’s dismay, Tom dismissed her concerns, labeling both her and her husband as “victims.” He admitted to witnessing patrons staring and making comments, yet failed to address the real issue at hand. When her husband referenced Ohio’s breastfeeding laws, stating that she was legally permitted to nurse, Tom retorted that he had the right to ask her to cover up.
The Importance of Advocacy
Emily, who has breastfed for a total of 31 months, expressed feelings of hurt and anger over the incident. She emphasized the importance of advocating for breastfeeding rights, noting that the existence of such advocates is a reflection of the societal challenges nursing mothers face. Despite assurances from the gym’s management that they support breastfeeding mothers, Emily’s experience suggests a disconnect between policy and practice.
Supporting Breastfeeding Mothers
It is disheartening that in today’s society, mothers still have to vigorously advocate for their right to breastfeed in public. The best way to support breastfeeding mothers is to treat them with respect and allow them the space to care for their infants without interruption.
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Conclusion
In summary, the incident at the gym highlights the ongoing challenges breastfeeding mothers face and the need for greater understanding and support.