As a parent, I often find myself reflecting on the freedom and adventures that my friends without children enjoy. While their choices may vary, whether by design or circumstance, I can’t help but fantasize about the experiences I could embrace if I were in their shoes. Thus, I’ve compiled a light-hearted list of activities that my childless friends can partake in, allowing me to live vicariously through their escapades.
1. Indulge in Cocktails
I’ve always enjoyed a good glass of wine, but let’s be honest—it’s not the same as heading out for a night of cocktails. I encourage you to explore vibrant bars and sample drinks with whimsically creative names. Enjoy shots that remind you of childhood treats and dance like no one’s watching. It’s an experience I miss dearly, and when you return, I’d love to hear all about it over a glass of wine.
2. Strut in High Heels
I recently tried on my heels for the first time in years, and the memories came flooding back. Those stylish shoes not only elongate the legs but also elevate any outfit. So, wear those heels to brunch or even while running errands. Revel in the attention they garner and share your glamorous stories with me afterward.
3. Let Loose with Swearing
Having kids changes the way we express ourselves. My vocabulary has certainly softened since embracing motherhood. So, I’d love for you to embrace the art of swearing—let loose on the road or when frustrations arise. It might feel good for you, and it’ll certainly harken back to the days when I could do the same without a second thought.
4. Embrace Late Nights
Staying up late used to be the norm, filled with snacks and binge-watching shows. If you find yourself awake past midnight, savor those quiet moments without kids interrupting. Catch up on the latest series or indulge in late-night snacks, and share your late-night adventures with me the next day.
5. Dare to Try Clothes in Stores
Shopping can be an expedition in itself, especially when kids are involved. I often find myself avoiding dressing rooms due to the chaos they bring. So, take advantage of this—try on everything you desire, and enjoy the luxury of choosing what fits and flatters you best.
6. Relax at the Bar
The bar scene offers a sense of tranquility that is often missing from family dining experiences. Enjoy sitting at a bar with your friends, engaging in adult conversation without interruptions. Savor a drink, soak in the ambiance, and relish in the carefree atmosphere that I can only dream about at this moment.
7. Visit a Public Restroom
This may sound trivial, but I yearn for the simple luxury of using a public restroom without a child in tow. When you have the chance, take a moment for yourself in these often overlooked spaces. It might just provide a sense of peace that we parents can only fantasize about.
While this list may seem whimsical, it’s a genuine request for my friends to embrace these experiences on my behalf. I understand that your lives are busy and filled with their own challenges. However, being able to share your stories allows me to enjoy those moments—perhaps one day, you’ll be able to return the favor. If you’re interested in learning more about the journey of pregnancy and home insemination, check out this excellent resource from the CDC here.
In summary, being a parent is a fulfilling yet demanding role that often limits personal experiences. By allowing me to live vicariously through your adventures, you can help bridge that gap while sharing in the camaraderie of friendship.