My partner and I have always struggled to find moments for romance amidst our busy lives. While he has dedicated himself to supporting our family, I can’t blame him for relying on my more laid-back approach to planning our dates. Recently, he has made an effort to be more thoughtful, but conversations about household items like a new rice cooker or kitchen remodel as gifts don’t exactly ignite passion.
While I plan to make the most of whatever he offers this Valentine’s Day, let’s be honest: this mother deserves some serious pampering. So, if he were to ask me what I truly want, here’s the list I would provide.
1. A Stunning Display of Roses
I’m talking about an abundance of red blooms beautifully arranged in vases, placed well out of reach of our children. And if roses aren’t possible, I’d be just as thrilled with lilies—my absolute favorite flower. Perhaps a combination of both would be ideal.
2. A Luxurious Spa Day
I envision a luxurious spa day where I can indulge in a soothing massage and a mani-pedi, often referred to as “me time.” Of course, if a little extra could be added, like liposuction or breast augmentation, I wouldn’t object—but let’s keep it simple with just the spa day. I’m definitely getting those gel nails, no objections allowed!
3. An Evening at an Upscale Restaurant
An evening at that upscale restaurant we’ve been eyeing would be delightful. Yes, it’s a splurge for a typical night out, but it is Valentine’s Day! I’d love to be treated to an appetizer of my choice, along with two fruity beverages instead of the usual complimentary water.
4. Chocolate
Then there’s chocolate. If only there were a zero-calorie version that tastes heavenly! If not, I’ll gladly accept the regular kind, but do consider some new clothing to accommodate those extra calories. Unless you can invent a miraculous zero-calorie chocolate—I’ll wait.
5. Jewelry
Jewelry is also on my wish list. I’m not looking for anything overly extravagant; just a piece that hasn’t lost its luster from being worn around kids and the chaos of daily life would be perfect.
6. Lingerie
Lingerie is another thoughtful gift. Choose something that excites both of us, something that you’d be eager to see me in, allowing for a little fun to ensue afterward.
7. Intimacy
Let’s not forget about intimacy. Maybe we could explore some new toys or games together. If you’ve ever considered using handcuffs, now is the perfect occasion—Valentine’s Day gives us the perfect excuse to spice things up!
I know these requests may seem cliché, and perhaps they are, but there is a reason these items are classic Valentine’s Day gifts. As a mother who has been navigating parenthood since my youth, I occasionally miss the thrill of being romanced. While I wouldn’t trade my family life for anything, it would be wonderful to enjoy the best of both worlds.
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