As your parent, I want to prepare you for the unique experiences that come with being tall. Standing tall has its advantages, but it also brings certain challenges. Here are eight important lessons I hope you will embrace as you grow.
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Anticipate Some Disappointments
You may find that items like toys and clothes don’t always fit your frame the way you wish. Maybe you’ll outgrow that tricycle after just one use or miss out on certain amusement park rides. Your favorite jacket might suddenly stop at your wrists, and those adorable light-up sneakers might not be available in your size. Unfortunately, these little letdowns can be part of the journey. -
Your Height Will Be Unmistakable
No amount of slouching or trying to hide will change the fact that you are tall. While some may see it as a mark of distinction, others may simply see you as the “tall girl with poor posture.” Accepting your height as part of who you are will help you feel more confident, rather than trying to shrink yourself down. -
Assumptions About Your Abilities
People often associate height with athleticism. You might find yourself being picked first for teams because of your stature, even if your skills don’t match their expectations. Use this to your advantage; let them think you’re a natural athlete until they see otherwise. -
People Will Misjudge Your Age
Height can lead others to mistakenly believe you are older than you really are. I’ve often had people assume you’re ready for responsibilities far beyond your years. Just remember, it’s okay to be young and enjoy your childhood, even if your appearance suggests otherwise. -
Friendship Knows No Size
While you may not fit into certain styles or trends like the “sisterhood of traveling pants,” your friendships will be based on shared interests, not height. I remember my best friend in high school was short, and I didn’t even realize it until much later—our connection was far more important than our differences. -
Height Can Influence Relationships
As you venture into dating, your height may become a factor. Some partners might feel intimidated, while others will find it attractive. It’s important to consider what you truly want in a partner, whether that means being with someone shorter or finding comfort in someone who shares your height. -
Expect Increased Responsibility
With height often comes the perception of maturity. You may be given responsibilities you’re not quite ready for, like leading group activities or babysitting. Embrace these opportunities, as they can help you grow, but remember to balance them with your own needs. -
You Are My Daughter
Ultimately, your height will make it clear that you are my child. Together, we’ll stand proud, with nowhere to go but up.
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Summary
Being tall comes with its own set of challenges and perks. From managing expectations about your abilities to navigating friendships and relationships, understanding your height can help you embrace who you are. By accepting these realities, you can transform potential insecurities into strengths that will define your journey.